5 Must-Have Bodysuits for Stunning Photoshoots

Get ready to amp up your style game and make a bold statement during your next boudoir photoshoot. I'm talking about the power of bodysuits. It’s no secret I am a huge fan of bodysuits - I recommend them to nearly every client I have. These versatile and oh-so-flattering garments are a must-have in any fashion-forward wardrobe. Today, I'm thrilled to share with you five fabulous bodysuit options that will take your shoot to the next level. From luxurious designs to comfortable classics, we've got you covered. So, let's dive right in!

Thistle and Spire: It's All About Seduction

Model Samantha Rose wears Thistle and Spire’s Cornelia Bodysuit, purchased at Sugar Cookies Lingerie

Let's start with Thistle and Spire, a brand that effortlessly combines sensuality and sophistication. When it comes to bodysuits, Thistle and Spire knows how to create pieces that make you feel like an absolute goddess. With intricate lace details, sumptuous fabrics, and flattering silhouettes, their bodysuits are a true work of art. When I slipped into one of their designs, I instantly felt a surge of confidence and empowerment. It's amazing how a single garment can transform your entire mood. Thistle and Spire bodysuits are not only visually stunning but also incredibly comfortable to wear. The attention to detail is evident in every stitch, ensuring a perfect fit that accentuates your curves in all the right places.

You'll be delighted to know that these gorgeous bodysuits are available at Sugar Cookies Lingerie. They understand the importance of offering high-quality and exquisite lingerie to their customers. By curating an impressive collection of Thistle and Spire bodysuits, they provide an opportunity for fashion enthusiasts to experience the magic of this exceptional brand.

Commando: Softness Meets Luxury

When it comes to bodysuits, sometimes less is more, and that's where Commando excels. Their bodysuits are the epitome of comfort and elegance. When you wear a Commando bodysuit, you feel enveloped in a cocoon of softness that feels absolutely luxurious against your skin - it’s pretty much all I want to wear. The fabric they use is incredibly soft, and it feels like a second skin. It's one of those garments that you never want to take off. But what truly sets Commando bodysuits apart is the attention they give to different necklines. They offer a variety of options, from classic scoop necks to plunging V-necks, allowing you to find the perfect neckline to complement your shoot's aesthetic. This attention to detail ensures that you not only look fabulous but also feel your best during your boudoir shoot.

Skims: Shape Your Way to Perfection

If you're looking for a bodysuit that doubles as shapewear, Skims has got you covered. Cofounded by the iconic Kim Kardashian, Skims bodysuits are designed to enhance your curves and accentuate your best features. The moment you put on a Skims bodysuit, you instantly feel a boost of confidence as it hugs and contours your body in all the right places. The secret lies in the thoughtfully designed shaping technology that smoothens and sculpts, giving you a flawless silhouette.

But what's even more impressive about Skims is their commitment to inclusivity. They offer a wide range of sizes and shades to cater to all body types and skin tones. It's truly empowering to see a brand that celebrates diversity and ensures that every individual feels represented and beautiful. Skims bodysuits not only provide shaping and support but also act as a stylish foundation for your entire outfit.

Wolford: Luxe All the Way

Prepare yourself for the epitome of luxury with Wolford bodysuits. This prestigious brand knows how to create bodysuits that exude sophistication and style. The moment I laid eyes on a Wolford bodysuit, I was captivated by the exquisite craftsmanship and attention to detail. The lines on their designs are impeccable, creating a visually striking silhouette that enhances your natural curves. It's the kind of bodysuit that makes you feel like a true fashion icon.

And here's the exciting part: Wolford bodysuits are currently on sale at Sugar Cookies! Yes, you read that right. Now is the perfect time to indulge in the luxurious world of Wolford and own a piece from this renowned brand. Trust me, when you slip into one of these luxurious creations, you'll feel like you're walking the runway of your own shoot, radiating confidence and style.

Maison Close: Temptation at Its Finest

Last but certainly not least, let's talk about Maison Close. This brand invites you to explore the captivating realm of temptation with their thong bodysuits. Maison Close embraces delicate fabrics, intricate designs, and an alluring aesthetic that embodies seduction and confidence. Maison Close understands that true beauty lies in the details. Their designs feature intricate lacework, strategic cutouts, and tantalizing silhouettes that leave a lasting impression. The craftsmanship and attention to detail are simply exceptional.

To explore the captivating world of Maison Close and find the perfect thong bodysuit that resonates with your unique style, head over to Sugar Cookies Lingerie website.

Bonus: Go for the Unexpected with a One-Piece Bathing Suit

If you're feeling adventurous and want to add a unique twist to your shoot, why not consider a one-piece bathing suit? These beauties can be surprisingly versatile, allowing you to experiment with different textures, patterns, and silhouettes. Whether you choose a vibrant tropical print, a sleek and sophisticated black design, or a retro-inspired polka dot number, a one-piece bathing suit will definitely make a statement. Pair it with a flowy cover-up, a wide-brimmed hat, and some statement accessories, and you'll have a jaw-dropping ensemble that showcases your confidence and individuality. Don't be afraid to break the mold and embrace the unexpected. Your one-piece bathing suit might just steal the show and make your shoot a true masterpiece.

In conclusion, choosing the right bodysuit for your photoshoot is crucial to create stunning and impactful images. Whether you opt for the seductive elegance of Thistle and Spire, the luxurious comfort of Commando, the shaping power of Skims, the timeless beauty of Wolford, or the tempting allure of Maison Close, these bodysuit options will undoubtedly make you shine like a star. So, go ahead and rock that shoot with confidence, and let your bodysuit be the ultimate expression of your personal style. Happy posing!

Join Us in NYC for an Unforgettable Event - Here's Why You Shouldn't Miss It!

I couldn't be more thrilled to invite you to our exclusive event in the heart of the Big Apple. Trust me when I say you won't want to miss this incredible opportunity. With our weekends already booked for the rest of the year, it's clear that this event is going to be off the charts. So, buckle up and let me walk you through the amazing reasons why you need to be a part of this unforgettable experience.

Indulge in Spectacular NYC Skyline Views

Prepare to have your breath taken away as you feast your eyes on the mesmerizing skyline of the city that never sleeps. Our event venue, the Wythe Hotel in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, offers a stunning location that provides panoramic views of the iconic New York City landscape. Situated in the heart of Williamsburg, this boutique hotel is housed in a historic, refurbished factory on the Brooklyn waterfront, giving you an unobstructed vantage point to marvel at the awe-inspiring sights.

The experience of witnessing the breathtaking cityscape from the Wythe Hotel is an unforgettable moment that will etch itself in your memory forever. You'll be in awe of the vastness and beauty that surrounds you. The juxtaposition of the urban landscape against the backdrop of the endless sky creates a sense of wonder and possibility. It's a view that evokes a mixture of excitement, inspiration, and admiration for the metropolis that never sleeps.

Brooklyn Boudoir Shoot at the Wythe Hotel in lingerie purchased at Sugar Cookies

Foster Camaraderie with Like-Minded Women

The power of connection is immeasurable, and this event offers you the perfect opportunity to forge meaningful bonds with other like-minded women. Surround yourself with a supportive and empowering community that shares your passions, dreams, and aspirations. Through engaging discussions, workshops, and networking activities, you'll have the chance to connect with fellow attendees who are on similar journeys. Together, we'll create an atmosphere that fosters collaboration, inspiration, and lifelong friendships. Whether you're an entrepreneur, artist, or professional seeking personal growth, this event is the ideal platform to expand your network and find your tribe.

Me at Sugar Cookies celebrating my 44th birthday with some lingerie

Private Shopping Appointments at Sugar Cookies

Ladies, get ready to immerse yourself in a shopping experience that will leave you breathless! As part of our highly-anticipated event, we are thrilled to offer you an exclusive opportunity to indulge in private shopping appointments at none other than Sugar Cookies, the renowned boutique known for its chic and trendy fashion selections. This is a shopping experience like no other, designed to cater to your unique style and fashion preferences.

Imagine stepping into the elegant and stylish boutique, where racks of carefully curated pieces await your perusal. From sophisticated dresses to edgy statement pieces, the collection at Sugar Cookies is sure to capture your imagination. As you walk through the store, you'll be accompanied by a personal stylist who is dedicated to helping you find the perfect outfits that reflect your individuality and make you feel like the confident woman you truly are.

At the end of your private shopping appointment, not only will you leave with a selection of stunning outfits that make you feel like a million dollars, but you'll also carry with you a newfound appreciation for the transformative power of fashion. It's more than just clothes—it's a journey of self-discovery, a way to express your individuality and make a statement to the world.

Experience an Amazing Dinner & Show at NYC's Most Iconic & Sexy Venues

Prepare to be dazzled and entertained like never before. We've curated an incredible evening that combines a delectable dinner with an unforgettable show at one of NYC's most iconic and sexy venues. Immerse yourself in the vibrant atmosphere of the city's nightlife, as you indulge in delicious food, captivating performances, and an electric ambiance that will leave you craving more. From the glitz and glamour of Broadway to the sultry jazz clubs in the Village, New York City is renowned for its world-class entertainment. This evening will be a feast for your senses, a night of laughter, music, and sheer enchantment that will create memories to last a lifetime.

Here’s a hint… photo credit: L’Secret de Audrey

Be the First to Know about Our Next Event and Get a Special Discount

As a special bonus for attending our NYC event, you'll be given exclusive access to be the first to know about our next big event. Trust me, you don't want to miss what we have in store! Our team is already hard at work planning an even more spectacular gathering that will take your breath away. By joining us in NYC, you become part of an inner circle, and we value your commitment to our community. Not only that, but you'll also receive a special discount on registration for being part of our select group in the city that never sleeps. This is your chance to stay ahead of the curve, experience something truly extraordinary, and create a legacy of unforgettable adventures.

I hope you're as excited as I am about our upcoming event in NYC! With the weekends booked for the rest of the year, it's clear that this is an opportunity you won't want to miss. From the awe-inspiring skyline views and the camaraderie with like-minded women to the private shopping appointments and the amazing dinner and show, this event promises to be an unforgettable experience. Join us in the city that never sleeps, and let's create memories that will last a lifetime. Be sure to secure your spot and get ready for an adventure of a lifetime! Together, we'll embark on a journey that celebrates empowerment, connection, and personal growth. Don't let this extraordinary opportunity pass you by. See you in the concrete jungle!

Top 6 Designer Lingerie Brands For Your Boudoir Photo Shoot

My gorgeous client in the Atelier Amour Douce Insomnie Open Bodysuit, purchased at Sugar Cookies NYC

Ladies, are you looking for a way to elevate your boudoir photo shoot and capture your beauty in the most stunning way possible? One of the easiest ways to do that is by investing in designer lingerie that not only looks fabulous but also feels amazing. Here are six designer lingerie brands that are worth the price tag that will help you feel confident and beautiful during your boudoir photo shoot.

For French Flair: Atelier Amour and Aubade

The Aubade Melodie D'Ete Half Cup Bra (psst: currently on sale!)

French lingerie is known for its elegance and sophistication, and Atelier Amour and Aubade are no exception. These two brands offer a wide range of lingerie pieces that are perfect for any boudoir photo shoot. Atelier Amour is a relatively new brand that has quickly gained popularity for its innovative designs and use of high-quality materials. Their pieces feature delicate lace and unique cutouts that add a modern twist to traditional French lingerie. Aubade, on the other hand, is a well-established brand that has been around since the 1950s. They are known for their intricate embroidery and attention to detail, making their lingerie pieces truly special.

Atelier Amour and Aubade both offer a variety of lingerie pieces, including bra and panty sets, bodysuits, and garter belts. Their designs range from delicate and feminine to bold and daring, so you're sure to find something that suits your style. Whether you're looking for a classic French look or something more modern, these brands have you covered.

For Bridal Elegance: Simone Perele

When it comes to bridal lingerie, Simone Perele is the perfect choice for any bride who wants to feel both sexy and elegant on their bridal boudoir photoshoot. Simone Perele is a French lingerie brand that has been around since 1948, and they are known for their exquisite bridal collections that exude grace and sophistication. Yes, there is a trend here towards French brands - can you blame me? Paris is one of my favorite cities in the world, and French women know how to do lingerie!

Simone Perele's bridal lingerie pieces are crafted with the utmost care and attention to detail, using the finest materials such as delicate lace, intricate embroidery, and soft, feminine colors. Their bridal collections offer a wide range of options, from traditional white or ivory sets to more modern, colorful pieces. They also offer a variety of styles, from classic bra and panty sets to more unique designs such as bodysuits or corsets.

Not only is Simone Perele's lingerie beautiful, but it is also incredibly comfortable to wear. They use high-quality materials that feel soft and luxurious against the skin, ensuring that you'll feel both comfortable and confident for your boudoir session and on your wedding day. Simone Perele's lingerie is also designed to fit a wide range of body types, so every bride can find the perfect piece for them.

For Burlesque Flair: Dita Von Teese

For those who want to embrace their inner burlesque star and add some sultry flair to their boudoir photo shoot, Dita Von Teese's lingerie line is the perfect fit. Dita Von Teese is a renowned burlesque performer known for her seductive and glamorous performances, and her lingerie line embodies that same aesthetic.

Dita Von Teese's lingerie is all about creating a sense of drama and allure, with designs that are both daring and elegant. Her collection includes a range of stunning pieces, including sultry corsets, high-waisted panties, garter belts, and more. Each piece is crafted with the utmost attention to detail, using luxurious materials such as lace, satin, and mesh to create a look that is both glamorous and sexy.

One of the standout features of Dita Von Teese's lingerie line is the focus on shaping and enhancing the body. Her corsets are designed to cinch in the waist and create an hourglass figure, while her high-waisted panties and garter belts accentuate the curves of the hips and legs. These designs are not for the faint of heart, but for the daring woman who wants to embrace their inner sex kitten and feel confident and powerful. While I am a lover of black, her color palate, especially this spring, is

S T U N N I N G.

NYC Edge: Thistle & Spire

One of the most popular bodysuits from Thistle & Spire - I love photographing this one!!

For women who want to add some New York City edge to their boudoir photo shoot, Thistle & Spire is the perfect brand. Thistle & Spire's lingerie is all about creating a unique blend of hard and soft, with intricate designs that showcase a bold and daring aesthetic.

Thistle & Spire's collection includes a range of stunning pieces, from strappy bralettes and cutout bodysuits to delicate lace pieces and mesh styles. Each design is crafted with the utmost attention to detail, using luxurious materials such as satin, mesh, and velvet to create a look that is both edgy and elegant.

The Ultimate Splurge: Bordelle

Bordelle is the ultimate choice for those who want to invest in luxurious lingerie that is sure to make them feel confident and empowered. Bordelle's designs are unique, edgy, and unlike anything else on the market, making them the perfect choice for women who want to stand out from the crowd.

Bordelle's lingerie is inspired by bondage and fetish wear, with designs that feature straps, buckles, and other unique detailing in incredible 24 carat gold (!). That’s right, the hardware accents and zippers are plated in 24 carat gold. This aesthetic is perfect for the daring and bold woman who wants to make a statement and feel powerful during their boudoir photo shoot. Bordelle's designs are not for the faint of heart, but for those who are willing to take risks and embrace their inner dominatrix.

OR - and hear me out here - if you want to embrace the lingerie as outerwear trend - you could pair many of these pieces with a simple black blazer for a fierce look ready to go to work or after work drinks!

The other thing I love about them is that you can tailor your look to be as strappy as you want it to be - you can add on leg garters and /or a belt, or keep it more simple to customize your lingerie look.

In conclusion, designer lingerie is a must-have for any woman who wants to feel confident and beautiful during their boudoir photo shoot. By investing in high-quality lingerie from brands such as Atelier Amour, Aubade, Simone Perele, Dita Von Teese, Thistle & Spire, and Bordelle, you can create stunning and unforgettable images that capture your unique beauty and personality.

Whether you're looking for delicate elegance, daring designs, or edgy New York City flair, there is a designer lingerie brand out there that will suit your individual style and preferences.

To shop for all of these designer lingerie brands and more, be sure to check out Sugar Cookies NYC. Their selection of lingerie is curated to showcase the best and most innovative designs on the market, ensuring that you'll find the perfect pieces to help you feel confident and beautiful during your boudoir photo shoot.

Curious about lingerie? I’m hosting an event with Sugar Cookies this August and would love for you to join!

10 tips for visiting a lingerie boutique | My own lingerie shopping experience at Sugar Cookies NYC

A few weeks ago I was doing my annual closet switch, putting the winter gear away and bringing forward the warmer weather clothes. As I opened my lingerie drawer, I realized: there were a few pieces I wear all the time that were getting pretty worn out, and even more pieces in there that I just never wear. Which got me thinking… when was the last time I actually bought myself new underwear? To my surprise/embarrassment I realized I haven’t bought new underwear since 2017!

You can imagine there have been LOTS of changes in life since then. At the time, my body was still in flux from baby #1. Then I had a second kid, and then of course, came 2020. I know I’m not the only one whose body changed during the pandemic, or whose dressing habits changed.

And so, I knew I was in dire need for a lingerie refresh.

Outside the old Sugar Cookies storefront in Chelsea back in 2017. They’ve since switched to a more private boutique with a “Lingerie Speakeasy” feel to it.

However, if you're an infrequent lingerie shopper, it can be a little intimidating to set foot inside a boutique. Even me, a boudoir photographer who tells women every day how beautiful they are (and believes it!) felt nervous! All the more reason, I thought, to practice what I preach. So with all of this in mind, here are 10 tips I’ve learned to make lingerie shopping both easier and more comfortable for you. Because even if you prefer shopping online, nothing can quite compare to the one-on-one expert attention you get from your local lingerie salon.

Before you go, it’s a good idea to take inventory of what you already have. Anything that is saggy, stretched out or has elastics sticking out should automatically be retired. Anything too tight that if feels uncomfortable and anything you haven’t worn in a year should also say goodbye. (Side note: Keep an eye out for bra recycling programs - Sugar Cookies hosts one every March and will donate a bra for every old one you turn in to recycle.)

Look at what you do wear often and consider why. Then, consider what NEED and what you WANT from your shopping experience. Having a plan helps you prioritize when you are at the shop. I was hoping for a good every day bra that still felt special and was interested in getting something that could be worn under a shirt of blazer as a lingerie-as-clothes look.

And with that, I headed out to Sugar Cookies! Here are my 10 best tips for your lingerie shopping experience:

1) Start on the right foot by going to a specialized lingerie boutique, NOT a chain.

You want to work with someone who understands and cares about lingerie, and can spend time getting to know you and your needs. Independant and female owned boutiques are my favorite - who better to help you figure out the ins and outs of undergarments? Also consider your own style when selecting a place to shop - the best boutiques are very well curated and while they will carry a wide selection, they are not necessarily one size fits all. Do your research and be sure the shop you select fits within your style and price point. For example, if you are looking something special, you would want to find a shop that specializes in luxe laces, not tee shirt bras.

2) If you're shopping for a special occasion, like a boudoir shoot, be sure to let the boutique know you’re on your way.

Calling ahead and making an appointment is the best way to ensure a boutique will be ready for you. Sugar Cookies will even hold time if they know when you are coming so you can have a private shopping experience. The team can make sure you have the best experience possible, and perhaps even pre-select a few items for you to try on.

3) Arrive as your best self.

Lingerie requires a certain mood to be truly appreciated. You may not think you’ll want food in your stomach before going lingerie shopping, but trust me, low blood sugar will sabotage your experience (the same goes for your boudoir shoot by the way!) So put on a little lipstick, try not to shop tired or hungover, and eating a light meal or snack before you go shopping. A little self-care beforehand will make the experience much more enjoyable.

4) Show up wearing a nude, low-rise thong or similarly "cheeky" panty when lingerie shopping.

This allows you see how the lingerie would look if you weren't wearing anything underneath, while still maintaining proper hygiene.

5) Don’t stress the sizes

Just like regular clothes, different brands size slightly differently. Some run big and some run small, so my best advise is not to overthink the sizing. My whole life I have considered myself a 32A. The last time I was fitted, I learned that in some brands I was a 30B and in some a 34A… this felt hard to believe but ultimately it just doesn’t matter! So this time around, I let Suzanne bring me lingerie and I didn’t ask or care about the sizes. If it was too small, she’d bring me something bigger and vice versa. It was her job and not mine to determine my size.

Suzanne, the fabulous owner of Sugar Cookies, helping me with sizes.

6) That said, get a proper bra fitting, especially if it's been over a year since your last one.

No judgement if it’s been awhile - I am the most guilty of this! Time time flies by, life gets crazy and there's a very good chance your body has changed, even slightly, since your last fitting. A well fitting bra is a game changer - you’ll feel the difference physically as well as psychologically, believe me.

7) Try the "scoop and adjust" technique when trying on bras.

This is the only way to be sure your breasts are centered and that the bra fits properly. A sales assistant can show you how to do this if you're unfamiliar with it.

8) Go outside your comfort zone and be honest about what you like.

Lingerie boutiques offer many unique items that you’d never at a regular department store. Don't be afraid to try a new fabric, a new color, or even a new item entirely (corsets and garter belts, anyone?). I’ve recently been into the visible lingerie trend, and where better to test this out? If you’re honest about what you are looking for your sales associate they can make suggestions and bring you something you never would have found on your own. Nervous? Don’t worry, they’ve seen it ALL.

9) Be clear on the store’s return and refund policy before purchasing.

The great thing about shopping in person is that you have a much higher rate of success, and theoretically you won’t be buying something you aren’t sure about. But things happen - I had a client once find out she was pregnant right after she bought. new lingerie, for example. Certain items are always non-returnable, like stockings. Often sale and clearance items are final sale as well. Be wary of boutiques with an "everything is final sale" policy, and understand that some shops will offer store credit only with returns.

10) Remember that it's okay to say "No."

You should never feel pressured into buying something you don’t like. A reputable boutique will always tell you when something doesn't look good on you or fits improperly. Listen to your gut and if you don’t feel your best in a piece at the store, it’s unlikely you’ll feel your best in it back at home. Move on and look for something else.

BONUS TIP: Have fun!

Lingerie shopping can be one of the more enjoyable things in life, especially when you go to the right place. So relax, allow yourself to indulge, and enjoy. I was nervous going in to this experience and I ended up having the best time.

So what did I end up with?

My purchases!

As a mom of 2 comfort is often key, so a soft cup bra is a frequent go-to. Most of mine were too small and digging in to my skin leaving lines behind, so this was on my “need” list. Suzanne helped me find this Simone Perele piece that was soft and comfortable but also had some side boning, which gave me a a little extra “umph” and didn’t make me feel so flat chested.

There was a set from Fleur du Mal that I loved but didn’t come in my size. Taking this as inspiration, Suzanne recommend this Chantelle set. It wasn’t even on the sales floor, so if I wasn’t shopping at a private and specialized boutique I would have missed this. It’s lacy and lightly padded so I can wear it under most outfits feeling confident and subtle sexy. I also got the matching cheeky bottom and felt AMAZING wearing this on my birthday.

Since the Sugar Cookies holiday party I have had my eye on this dark floral nightgown. Luckily there was one left in the shop and even luckier it was in my size. It feels so light and soft, and with a belt I could even wear it as a summertime slip dress. It was a splurge, but I figured it was my birthday and I have literally been thinking about this one for 3 months, so even at a higher price point it was a worthwhile purchase to me. If you love something and feel incredible every time you wear it, it’s a better purchase than something that you feel so-so about it, even if it was “cheaper.” So when shopping for anything really, I try to consider value over the straight up number on the price tag.

I didn’t get a lingerie as outerwear piece on this trip, but now I have something on the “want” list for next time! Do you have tips to lingerie shopping? I'd love to hear it in the comments!

And psst: if you are a lover of lingerie and boudoir, Sugar Cookies NYC and Brooklyn Boudoir are teaming up this summer for a weekend of lingerie, boudoir and NYC fabulousness! Contact me to learn more!

Top 10 Reasons to Book a Boudoir Shoot and Embrace Your Sensuality

As a professional boudoir photographer, I have had the privilege of capturing intimate and sensual moments for my clients. Many women come to me for boudoir photography for various reasons, and each one is unique. In this blog post, I'll share with you the top 10 reasons to book a boudoir shoot, and why it can be a transformative experience for anyone.

1 - To Celebrate Yourself

As women, we tend to focus on our flaws rather than our strengths. We are often our own worst critics, and it can be challenging to feel confident in our skin. A boudoir shoot is an opportunity to celebrate your body and your beauty. It's a chance to see yourself in a new light and embrace your femininity. Whether you're curvy, petite, tall, or short, boudoir photography is an inclusive art form that can capture the beauty of every woman.

2 - Boost Your Confidence

A boudoir shoot can be an empowering experience that helps you feel more confident and self-assured. Seeing yourself in a new light and being proud of your body can be incredibly empowering and help you feel more confident in your day-to-day life. During a boudoir session, you'll be treated like a superstar and get to be the center of attention. Professional photographers are experts in capturing your best angles and lighting, and you'll leave the session feeling more self-assured.

3 - To Create a Timeless Keepsake

A boudoir shoot is a way to create a timeless keepsake that you can cherish forever. You'll have beautiful images that capture your beauty and femininity, and you can look back on them for years to come. Boudoir photography is not just about taking photos; it's about creating art that captures the essence of who you are. You can display your images in your home, or keep them in a private collection for yourself or your partner.

4 - To Mark a Milestone

Many women book boudoir shoots to mark a milestone in their lives, such as a wedding, a pregnancy, or a significant birthday. It's a way to celebrate the moment and create lasting memories. A boudoir session can be a unique way to commemorate your achievements and make a meaningful moment that you'll never forget.

5 - To Gift to Your Partner

I always say that gifting is the icing on the cake - it’s about more than just a gift to a loved one, but that said, a boudoir shoot can make for an incredibly romantic and intimate gift for your partner. It's a chance to show your love and appreciation by giving them a unique and personal gift that they'll treasure forever. The beauty of boudoir photography lies not only in the sensual photos but also in the capture of your personality, style, and confidence in a way that your partner will adore.

6 - To Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

Booking a boudoir shoot can be a way to step out of your comfort zone and try something new. It can be a little intimidating, but it's also an opportunity to push your boundaries and do something that scares you a little. Stepping out of your comfort zone can be a transformative experience that helps you grow as a person and become more self-confident.

7 - To Embrace Your Sensuality

Boudoir photography provides an opportunity for women to embrace their femininity and sexuality, and to feel more confident in themselves. It's a form of art that captures the beauty of the human body in a way that is both sensual and artistic and empowers women to celebrate their unique beauty and individuality.

8 - To Enjoy a Unique and Exciting Experience

A boudoir shoot is a one-of-a-kind experience that can be both exhilarating and enjoyable. From choosing your wardrobe to getting your hair and makeup done, every aspect of the shoot is designed to make you feel pampered and special. You get to be the center of attention and have a fun and exciting photoshoot where you can express yourself and feel empowered. Whether you're looking for a way to inject some excitement into your life or create a memorable experience, a boudoir shoot is a perfect opportunity to do so.

9 - To Create a Bond with Your Photographer

Boudoir photography is a very personal and intimate experience, so it's important to find a boudoir photographer who you feel comfortable with. When you book a boudoir shoot, you'll have the opportunity to get to know your photographer and build a rapport with them. This can lead to a deeper level of trust and comfort, which can result in even better photos.

10 - To Rediscover Yourself

Finally, a boudoir shoot can be a way to rediscover yourself and see yourself in a new light. It's an opportunity to shed your inhibitions and embrace your beauty, femininity, and sensuality. During a boudoir session, you'll see yourself in a way that you may never have before, and this can be a transformative experience. You'll leave the shoot feeling more confident and empowered, with a newfound appreciation for your body and yourself.

In conclusion, a boudoir shoot is a transformative experience that can benefit anyone, regardless of age, size, or shape. It's an opportunity to celebrate yourself, boost your confidence, and step out of your comfort zone, all while creating a stunning work of art.

By booking a boudoir shoot, you can explore and embrace your sensuality, capture a milestone moment, create a unique and personal gift for your partner, and so much more. It's a chance to break free from societal norms and embrace your individuality in a way that is both empowering and liberating.

So if you're looking for a way to feel more confident, celebrate your beauty, or create a meaningful memory, consider booking a boudoir shoot. It's a decision you won't regret, as the experience and photos will serve as a reminder of your beauty, confidence, and strength for years to come.

Curious about booking your own boudoir shoot? Contact me to start the conversation!

Sugar Cookies x Brooklyn Boudoir Present a New York City Boudoir & Lingerie Photoshoot Retreat!

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Sugar Cookies x Brooklyn Boudoir present: Boudoir in the City

A Lingerie and Boudoir Experience in NYC

August 4 - 6, 2023

Join me for a New York City weekend filled with luxe lingerie, boudoir, NYC skyline views and some surprises a long the way. I am very excited to announce the 2023 New York City Lingerie & Boudoir retreat, hosted by Brooklyn Boudoir and Sugar Cookies Lingerie!

While I love my Bushwick studio, the one thing it doesn't have is New York City skyline views. Many of my clients are hoping to get *THAT* shot which is no longer possible outside of a special event like this one. So to all of you who ask about the skyline shots, this event is for you!

The Event

It's no secret that Sugar Cookies is one of my favorite boutiques in the city. With each event we produce together, a group of tightly knit, like-minded women is born!  These past events together have been so popular, we've decided to step it up a notch and offer an epic New York City lingerie & photoshoot experience!

Who is this event for?

 This is an amazing way to test the waters of boudoir photography if you’ve been curious to try it, or to refresh your collection. You’ll also connect with other women and get some epic photos with a stunning New York City backdrop.  
Most of my special events are limited to past clients only, but this experience is open to all women, regardless if we have previously worked together.  Out-of-towners, local New Yorkers, women of all ages: if you want to spend a weekend celebrating yourself in the world's greatest city, this event is for you!

What you can expect

• A welcome reception to get to know each other, form connections, and enjoy camaraderie with a small group of like-minded women.

• A salon-style talk with Stephanie, Susanne and Samantha Rose about all things lingerie, boudoir & confidence (and how they are all related).

• A private lingerie shopping experience at Sugar Cookies Lingerie NYC.

• A 45-minute boudoir shoot in your new lingerie at the Wythe Hotel in Williamsburg Brooklyn, featuring one of the best views of the iconic NYC skyline.

• A group dinner and burlesque show at one of the city's classiest (and sexiest!) venues.

• Special offers and early access to future events (trust me, this is going to be BIG)!

Tentative Schedule

Friday August 4

Evening welcome reception, bubbly and salon talk at Sugar Cookies

Saturday August 5
Private lingerie shopping appointments at Sugar Cookies boutique
Free time in NYC with Stephanie & Susanne's recommendations and favorite places as a guide
Dinner and a burlesque show at one of the city's classiest (and sexist!) venues

Sunday August 6
45-minute private boudoir shoot at the Wythe Hotel, featuring the NYC skyline and YOU in your new lingerie
Breakfast or Lunch, Sparkling wine, light treats
Sunset meet-up at the Wythe Hotel Rooftop Bar

The Extras

In addition to all of the above, you will also receive 10+ fully-retouched digital boudoir images in a downloadable online gallery, a behind-the-scenes video, plus other surprises and special treats.

Pricing

All of the above + other surprises: $2049

The Small Print

50% due upon booking. Balance due 10 days before the start of the event.
Lingerie Purchases, transportation, and lodging not included.
Hair and Makeup Artist for your shoot is not included, but available as a $200 add-on if desired.
A block of hotel rooms will be put on hold for those coming in from out of town- please inquire. The earlier the better - availability is limited.

We can't wait to see you and enjoy a weekend of celebrating your best, most confident self in New York City!

Frequently Asked Questions

How is this different than other Brooklyn Boudoir Experiences?

The typical Brooklyn Boudoir Experience takes place at my studio in Bushwick, Brooklyn and lasts 3 hours from start to finish. While I love it there, I do sometimes miss the days that I photographed women at hotels. This event will span over three days, but you will also have plenty of downtime. Your boudoir shoot will take place at the Wythe Hotel last approximately 45 minutes and we’ll capture 1 -2 lingerie looks. So while your shoot will be shorter than the usual Brooklyn Boudoir Experience, we will be spending more time together over the course of the weekend talking, socializing and having fun

Is Hair and Makeup Included?

No, hair and makeup is not included, but can be added on for an additional $200.

What if I am coming in from out of town?

You are welcome to join! We will be putting a block of rooms on hold for those coming in from out of town, so please inquire! Each day, you can plan to spend 1-3 hours with us at our various events, but the rest of the time you will be free to explore NYC.

How many photos will I get?

You will receive a minimum of 10 photos.

Are meals included?

Dinner on Saturday night and brunch on Sunday are included. Snacks and bubbly will be available throughout. You will be on your own for all other meal

Will there be more events in the future?

Yes! We have lots of other ideas for retreats in the works. However, each retreat will be completely unique with different offerings to keep things fresh. So the next retreat will not be at the Wythe Hotel… it may not even be in New York! ;)

How can I stay in the know?

Be sure to follow along our social media to learn about our future events: @brooklynboudoir @sugarcookiesnyc

40 and Fabulous: 6 Reasons to Book a Boudoir Photoshoot | New York City Milestone Photography

It's time to celebrate! A boudoir photoshoot is a perfect way to show yourself how beautiful and amazing you are! Here are six reasons why you should book a boudoir photo shoot for your 40th birthday:

1. Celebrate Your Milestone Birthday

Your 40th birthday is a major milestone that marks the beginning of a new chapter in your life. What better way to celebrate yourself than to commemorate this special day with a boudoir photoshoot?

This photoshoot is all about you. You get to choose your outfits, poses, and backgrounds so that you can create beautiful images that reflect your personality and style. With the help of a professional photographer, you can capture stunning photographs that you will treasure forever.

Imagine looking back on your amazing photoshoot in years to come, remembering how special and beautiful you felt. That’s the power of a boudoir photoshoot – and it’s a gift you can give to yourself this year.

2. Reclaim Your Confidence

A boudoir photoshoot is a luxurious experience that allows you to pamper yourself and turn up the heat on your self-image. You'll be able to work with a professional photographer who will help you to celebrate your body and femininity. This will provide you with a whole new perspective of yourself and help you to feel more confident in your own skin.

Not only will you feel amazing after the photo shoot, but you will also have stunning images to remind you of your beauty. These images can be a powerful tool to help you embrace your power and reclaim your confidence.

3. Show Your Beauty

Say goodbye to dull, lifeless photos and say hello to stunning, captivating images that represent your unique self! You can create beautiful images that showcase your natural beauty and help you express your individuality.

Your photoshoot will allow you to be creative and let your personality shine through. Whether you want to emphasize the curves of your body or play up your sultry looks, you can create images that reflect your style. With a boudoir photoshoot, you can be as daring and bold as you want, and let your true self come through in the photos.

4. Create Lasting Memories

The photos you create during the photo shoot will become an integral part of your story. They will serve as a reminder of your beauty, your strength, and the amazing person that you are.

Your photoshoot photos are more than just a reflection of your appearance - they will become a time capsule of the amazing life you have created for yourself. You will be able to look back at these photos for years to come and remember the moments that made you who you are.

Your photoshoot photos will be a testament to your beauty, strength, and courage. They will be a reminder that you are capable of achieving greatness, no matter the obstacles you may face.

5. Make a Statement

What an empowering way to commemorate a particular moment in your life! A boudoir photoshoot is a great way to celebrate your body and feel beautiful in your own skin. It can be a special treat for yourself, to remind you of how far you have come, or a sweet gift for a loved one. The photo shoot can be as revealing or as modest as you'd like - you can wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. You can even incorporate meaningful items like jewelry, or favorite articles of clothing to reflect your unique style. At the end of the day, you'll have gorgeous photos that you can keep forever to remind you of your self-love and beauty!

6. Have Fun

Having a boudoir photoshoot is an incredibly liberating experience. It can be both empowering and exciting, as you get to let your inner beauty shine! You can express yourself in a unique way and create stunning portraits that you can look back on for years to come.

The process can be a lot of fun, from deciding on the perfect lingerie to picking out the perfect makeup and hairstyle. Once the shoot is underway, the photographer will direct you through each pose, capturing the real you through their lens.

It's a chance to let go and embrace your femininity, creating something special that you can look back on with pride. So why not give it a go - you never know, you may just surprise yourself!

Conclusion

Your milestone birthday is the perfect opportunity to celebrate your beauty, reclaim your confidence, and create lasting memories. Whether you're making a statement or simply having fun, you deserve to be pampered on this special day.

Celebrate your milestone birthday in style and get ready to make some unforgettable memories. Book a boudoir photoshoot with Brooklyn Boudoir and show the world just how beautiful you are!

Curious about celebrating your milestone birthday with a boudoir shoot? Email me and let’s get the conversation started!

Why You Should Consider Doing a Bridal Boudoir Photoshoot

Are you ready to add some extra glamor and excitement to your relationship? Then consider a bridal boudoir photoshoot! Boudoir photography is the perfect way to capture your beauty and femininity tastefully and elegantly before your wedding. Read on to learn more about why you should consider doing a bridal boudoir photoshoot.

Capture Your Best Self

A bridal boudoir photoshoot is a perfect way to capture your inner beauty and femininity. From sultry to sweet, you can choose the style that best reflects your personality. Whether you choose to show off your curves or focus on your natural beauty, your photos will be a stunning reminder of how beautiful you truly are.

A bridal boudoir photoshoot is also a great way to document the changes you've gone through in the lead-up to your wedding day. Most women are in the best shape of their lives and the best place emotionally in their lives during this time. This makes it the perfect time to express yourself in a unique and meaningful way.

Showcase Your Personality

A bridal boudoir photoshoot is not just about taking pictures; it's also an opportunity to express your personality and show off your curves in a sexy and sultry way! From lacy lingerie to wedding day accessories, you can create an atmosphere that is all your own and make the most of the pieces that you otherwise would only have worn once.

For those looking to push their boundaries, a bridal boudoir photoshoot can also be a chance to step outside your comfort zone. Whether it's with a bold lip color or a daring outfit, you can challenge yourself to be authentic and unapologetic. And at the end of the day, you'll have beautiful pictures to capture your unique self.

Make it a Gift for Your Partner

One of the best parts about a bridal boudoir photoshoot is that you can use the photos as a surprise gift for your partner. Imagine the look on their face when they open up a photo album full of stunning pictures of you! It's an extraordinary way to show your partner your love and appreciation. So many brides tell me how shocked their partner will be when they get the photos - in a good way! How fun is that?!

With a bridal boudoir photoshoot, you can capture beautiful, intimate moments that you can look back on for years to come. Not to mention, your partner will be taken aback by the stunning photos you created together! Like I always say, gift giving is just the icing on the cake.

Create Lasting Memories

A bridal boudoir photoshoot is not just about taking the perfect pictures, it's also about preserving the memories of your beauty. You'll be looking back on these photos for years to come, and they'll keep the excitement of your marriage alive, long after the bouquet has been thrown and the cake has been cut.

So don't just think of the boudoir photo shoot as just a series of pictures; think of it as a chance to capture the romance and beauty of your special relationship that you can cherish forever.

Creating a Bridal Boudoir Album

Creating a bridal boudoir album is an exciting way to express yourself and your love story! Not only is it a beautiful, intimate gift for your significant other, but it's also a great way to capture your self-confidence and beauty. This type of album is the perfect way to celebrate your love and the special bond you share. It's also a great way to look back on this special moment in your life.

When creating a bridal boudoir album, you can have as much or as little involvement as you'd like. You can choose to work with a professional photographer to capture your special moments and bring your vision to life. The album will be a unique expression of your relationship and love.

Your bridal boudoir album will be an amazing reminder of your special day and all the emotions that come with it. It's a way to look back on this moment in your life and remember the love you share.

Be the Star of Your Own Show

A bridal boudoir photoshoot is perfect for showing off your beauty and femininity. Whether you want to capture your inner goddess or express yourself more daringly, a bridal boudoir photoshoot is a perfect way to do it. Not only will it be a gift for your partner, but it will also be a lasting reminder of your journey to your wedding day. So go ahead and unleash your inner goddess with a bridal boudoir photoshoot!

Ready for your bridal boudoir shoot? Contact me for more info.

5 Simple Tips to Help You Get the Most Out of Your Boudoir Photoshoot | Best Boudoir Photography

Are you considering a boudoir photoshoot in New York? Great! This type of photo shoot is my absolute favorite and has become increasingly popular over the years, and with good reason. There are so many benefits to having boudoir photographs taken: they can be used as a form of self-expression, they can be a great way to boost your self-confidence, and they can make for a fun, unique experience.

But before you dive in, it’s a good idea to know what to expect and how to get the most out of your session. We’ve compiled 5 simple tips to help you get the most out of your boudoir photoshoot.

Introduction to Boudoir Photography

Boudoir photography is a type of photography that focuses on capturing intimate and sensual moments, usually in a bedroom or private setting. It’s a fun way to capture yourself in a beautiful, flattering light by a professional photographer. Boudoir photography aims to create images that show off your unique personality and style in a sexy or sensual way. It is often used to celebrate milestones like an engagement, anniversary, or wedding and be used as a gift for a partner for a special occasion. My clients often have a boudoir shoot for themselves, just because!

Benefits of a Boudoir Photoshoot

It’s a great way to document a special moment in your life or to commemorate an important milestone. It can also be a fun experience to share with a partner. On a more personal level, a boudoir photoshoot can be a great way to boost your self-confidence and body image. The photos can be a reminder of how beautiful and strong you are, and can be a great source of inspiration.

Another great benefit of boudoir photography is that it can be a great way to experiment with your style and explore different sides of your personality. You can try out different poses and clothing to create images that are uniquely you.

What to Expect During a Boudoir Photoshoot

When you’re preparing for a boudoir photoshoot, there are a few things to keep in mind. First, you’ll want to make sure you’re comfortable and relaxed. Bring a friend or partner if you feel more comfortable with someone else in the room. Keep in mind that at Brooklyn Boudoir, we are a womxn only space.

It’s also a good idea to prepare a few items that you can use to add interest and personality to your photos. This can include jewelry, accessories, props, and clothing. I will send you a prep guide after you are officially booked with tons of ideas of how to prepare for your shoot - what to bring, dos and don’t, beauty prep ideas and much more.

Finally, make sure to communicate openly with your boudoir photographer. Let them know what type of photos you’re looking for and your expectations. It’s important that with photography this intimate that you and your photographer are on the same page. A great photographer will be able to help you create the images you’re looking for.

5 Simple Tips to Help You Get the Most Out of Your Boudoir Photoshoot

Now that you know what to expect during a boudoir photoshoot, let’s take a look at 5 simple tips to help you get the most out of your session.

Tip 1: Wear Something You Feel Comfortable In

The most important part of a boudoir photoshoot is feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin. Choose clothing that you feel comfortable wearing. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try out different looks, but in general I feel that women look their best when they look and feel like themselves. No need for costumes or for wearing something you think you “should” wear. Not a high heels wearer? No problem! Bare feet look intimate, natural and sexy. More comfortable in a tank top than a a garter belt? Let’s go for that. There are no rules, except to feel like your best, most authentic self.

If you’re feeling self-conscious about showing too much skin, you can always add layers or accessories like jewelry. It’s all about finding the look that makes you feel the most confident and beautiful. You can be entirely covered up and still be sexy AF.

Tip 2: Bring Something Meaningful That Reflects Your Personality

While I don’t endorse using props in your photoshoot, wearing a piece of statement Jewlery or another meaningful accessory can add a personal touch to your photos. Engagement rings and wedding rings of course are great to feature, your wedding veil, even your wedding overskirt looks amazing on camera. A client recently brought in sentimental bracelets that she got for big life events, such as the birth of her kids. You’ll never regret capturing something special and meaningful to you.

Tip 3: Consider the types of photos you are attracted to.

A boudoir photoshoot is a great way to capture special moments in your life, so I ask you to consider what you are attracted to in this moment of your life. Do you like images that are light, soft and airy, or darker and moodier? Do you like images that are more “lifestyle” with beds and furniture, or more editorial shots using a backdrop? What level of “edge” are you hoping for? Do you prefer your face to be in the images, or are you looking for something more anonymous? These are all important to take into account.

A good photographer won’t expect you to know exactly what you are looking for, and will guide you through some questions and exercises to help get a better sense of your style. Creating a Pinterest board of photos you like is a great place to start.

Tip 4: Have Fun and Relax

It’s important to remember to have fun and relax during your boudoir photoshoot. Take the time to enjoy the experience and don’t be afraid to laugh or be silly. This is a great way to capture genuine emotion and create beautiful, natural photos.

Your photographer will be able to help you feel comfortable and guide you through the session. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or let them know if something doesn’t feel right. A professional photographer will always respect your comfort zones.

Tip 5: Connect With Your Photographer

Finally, it’s important to connect with your photographer. Boudoir photos are all about capturing genuine emotion and connection. Of course, you want to find someone whose style speaks to you. but also take the time to get to know your photographer and let them get to know you. A photograph is as much about the relationship between the photographer and client as anything else. Talk about your expectations and let them know what type of photos you’re looking for. A good photographer will be able to help you relax and create beautiful, natural photos. You may also want to find someone in the same stage of life as you are. For example, if you are over 50, you may not feel the most comfortable with a photographer in their 20s. Whoever you decide to use, remember, connection is key.

Finding a Boudoir Photographer in New York

Are you looking for a boudoir photographer in New York? There are many talented photographers in the area who specialize in boudoir photography. When choosing a photographer, make sure to look at their portfolio and find one who’s style matches your vision. You can also simply do an online search for photographers local to New York City.

It’s also a good idea to read reviews and ask for references. A good photographer will be able to help you create beautiful, natural photos that reflect your unique personality and style.

Boudoir photography is a great way to capture a special moment in your life and boost your self-confidence. Before your photoshoot, it’s a good idea to know what to expect and how to get the most out of the experience.

If you’re looking for a boudoir photographer in New York, make sure to do your research and find one whose style matches your vision. With the right photographer, you’ll be able to create beautiful photos that reflect your unique personality and style.

So don’t be afraid to take the plunge and book your boudoir photoshoot today. With these tips, you’ll be sure to get the most out of the experience and create beautiful, natural photos that you’ll cherish for years to come.

Questions about your shoot? Feel free to reach out and ask - I’m here to help!

Wardrobe Ideas for your Boudoir Shoot: The White Shirt

Boudoir outfit inspiration

Your upcoming photoshoot is a big deal, so naturally the outfits you choose are important to plan carefully. After you book with me, I will send you a very comprehensive prep guide to help plan your looks. But in the meantime, I am starting this series of ideas for you to wearing during your boudoir session. Starting with …

The White Button Down Shirt

Ahh, the white shirt. Classic, classy, sexy, and already in your closet! There are so many ways to style a white shirt, and it’s always in style. Plus it looks good on EVERYONE, so naturally it’s one of my favorite pieces to photograph.

What style of white shirt should you choose?

I always recommend you choose a white button down without patterns, logos or details that could date the photo or be distracting. I personally love a shirt that it’s a little large (not too huge on you) and more summer weight - in other words, not too thick. A little sheerness is oh so sexy and a lighter material will move well when you do. I have a version of this kind of shirt in the studio if you don’t have one that you love.

Should I wear by partner’s shirt?

It’s always so fun to sneak your partner’s shirt out of the closet - so many of my clients do this and it always gives their partner a fun surprise. I would just call out that you don’t want the shirt to be TOO big on you-we still want to see you underneath it!

How should you wear a white shirt in your boudoir photoshoot?

There are SO MANY ways to wear the classic white shirt:

• Wear it over lingerie, choosing how many buttons are closed to tailor the level of “edge” to your comfort zone.

• Wear it completely undone, draped off the shoulder. My clients always love a “taking the shirt off” pose. Bonus if the shirt is a little sheer so we can get a peek of your silhouette underneath.

• Wear it totally buttoned up with no pants

• Wear it frumpy and wrinkled for a “just woke up like this” flavor

• Hike it up to catch a glimpse of booty.

• Styled with “his” accessories for a masculine-sexy feel

• Tied up to show a little extra abs and give a ore fashion-forward feel.

Remember, you can be as revealing as you want to be during your boudoir shoot - from totally NSFW to completely covered up - and a crisp white button down gives you the flexibility to do just that. It also gives us tons of options for posing, gives you something productive to do with your hands, and is a classy, classy look that will never go out of style.

Need more Boudoir wardrobe inspiration? Keep checking out my blog posts for more!

xoxo,

Stephanie

Insecurities be Gone | Bridal Boudoir photoshoot Client Experience

Insecurities are pesky little bitches, aren't they?! One of the best compliments I get from my clients is that all of those little nagging insecurities that they have every single time they look in the mirror… they don't see them when they look at their photos.

They see themselves the way their partner does, the way I do! They see a strong, amazing, gorgeous woman!  I recently read this passage on Cup of Jo, a blog I read on the daily, and it really stuck with me:

It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up and silent with chests rising and falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care inside your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when you’re laughing and smiling and happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly yourself.

I love that, don’t you?

Ms. T’s experience

It’s not unusual to feel nervous and a little insecure before a boudoir shoot, but Ms. T here was EXTRA nervous.  She was gifted a boudoir shoot by her bridal party, who knew how much this COVID bride needed it after all the stress and reschedules of trying to plan a wedding during quarantine. How sweet is that?

And I suspect Ms. T needed the push to take the plunge.  But let me tell you I am SO HAPPY that she did.  Over the course of our bridal boudoir photoshoot, I watched Ms. T go from nervous, questioning, and over-thinking to feeling it and having fun.  It was incredible to witness. 

In her own words:

“I was so, so nervous about getting the photos done for a variety of reasons and I couldn't be happier that I did! They're gorgeous and a nice confidence boost pre-wedding post-COVID weight gain. :) Stephanie was so much fun to work with and really captured the aesthetic I was hoping for. The entire experience was very fun, comfortable, and empowering.”

Still feeling insecure about a bridal boudoir photoshoot? 

Nearly everyone is always critical of this or that on their body. Everyone always thinks, I need to be a certain weight/shape/size/personality/whatever to do something like a boudoir shoot and let me just say - no, you don't, you just need to be YOU.

There is never any reason NOT to celebrate the present, as Ms. T goes on to say:

“Just do it! I feel like all women should do this type of shoot every few years, and I wish I would have known to do one when I was younger. In this moment I weigh the most I ever have and was feeling pretty down on myself; the experience and pictures helped me see myself the way others do. This is honestly one of the best things I've ever done for myself.”

I am so happy to have met Ms. T and loved to have been a part of her celebration.  Watching her come out of her shell was one of those moments that makes me so grateful to be a boudoir photographer. By letting go of our insecurities and gaining confidence, we are changing the world one woman at a time!

Also a side note that Ms. T loves the color teal, and went for a peacock colored velvet cover for her album.  I wasn’t sure about this at first but when it came in… WOW. It was SO BEAUTIFUL I added velvet cover options to my offerings. They are STUNNING.

xoxo, Stephanie

Are you looking to book a bridal boudoir photoshoot in NYC? Click below to learn more about the experience.

5 Ways a Boudoir Shoot can Boost Your Body Image and Self-Esteem

The best part of being a boudoir photographer is connecting with women from all walks of life and watching them walk away from our shoots with a renewed sense of self-confidence and an extra little swagger in their step.

While it’s amazing to have beautiful photos of yourself that you love, those photos are really just the icing on the cake. A boudoir photoshoot is about you learning to love yourself, boosting your body confidence, growing your self-esteem and feeling empowered in your beauty & femininity. 

Why is increasing body image and self esteem  so important?  For starters, when you feel confident, you are less likely to second guess yourself, more likely to take risks and more open to going after what you really want. You will feel more self-assured as you take on whatever life throws at you, and find resilience when presented with life’s challenges.

Best of all, you can use your confidence to help lift up others, particularly young women. I personally try to always be an example of self-confidence for my daughters as well as my clients so they understand that they don’t need instagram filters or decorations on their bodies to be beautiful.

True beauty radiates from within, and I firmly believe that when you FEEL good, you will surely also look your best.

From start to finish, the Brooklyn Boudoir photoshoot experience is designed to help you reclaim your confidence, feel empowered, know yourself, and love yourself, on top of loving the photos that were taken of you.

But HOW does that actually happen, you ask?

Here are just a few ways that a boudoir session can help you embrace your body image and build your self-esteem:

1 - You will see yourself in a completely new light

Spending a day getting pampered and strutting your stuff is more than just a good time—it can completely change your self-image and help you to see yourself from a different perspective.

Through my lens, you will see just how beautiful you are, inclusive of any insecurities or so-called flaws. I always focus on what my clients love about themselves but also try to capture at least a few images of what they are insecure about. (Record Scratch!)

I can hear the collective gasp out there. 

Why would I do this, you ask? Because imagine how liberating it would feel to see a little dimple on the thigh or stretch marks on the tummy AND ALSO love that photo of yourself. 

We all have insecurities, but when you let yourself pause to notice your own beauty and the strength in your body, you just may begin to appreciate yourself a little bit more.

Plus, you’ll have those stunning images to look back at on days when you’re just not feeling your best self as a little reminder of how beautiful and badass you really are.

2 - You will show yourself a little love

I think we could all admit that we’re a little better at loving others than loving ourselves - women in particular! Mothers especially!!

Every single one of us deserves love, and you definitely deserve to love yourself. A boudoir session can help you feel more confident about the way you look and more comfortable in the skin you’re in. That’s a big deal!

As women, we are inundated with images and ideas of what we should and shouldn’t look like. Boudoir photos can help you push away all that talk and learn to better love yourself, exactly as you are.

I want my clients to treat themselves as they would treat a friend, rooting her on and telling her how amazing she is. It’s what I will do for you our entire shoot and it’s what I want you to do for yourself after you walk out of my studio.

My dream for all women is that we all stop wishing away our years, wishing to change our looks, wishing to be someone else and have the desire to be ourselves. 

3 - You can step outside your comfort zone

Think of the rush you get when you take the plunge on something you’ve always wanted to do… or something that you never thought you could do and then did. 

Like if you’ve ever gone skydiving, or as a kid, that first time you jumped off the highest diving board. A boudoir session takes you out of your normal, day-to-day life and shows you the boldness you may not get to see in your day to day grind. 

You will be amazed by what you just did. A recent client told me that she left her shoot wanting to tell everyone she walked by about her shoot, but then revelled in the secret to herself.

When you do something that you never thought you could do, when you accomplish something that seemed impossible, when you prove to yourself that YES, you CAN… well, what is more powerful than that?

4 - You’ll feel a sense of empowerment

It’s not about the male gaze, ladies.

I intentionally photograph the women in front of my lens from a female perspective.  It need not be sexual at all. Or if it IS sexual for you, it’s because you feel great expressing your sexuality. 

It’s a powerful thing to own that from a body image and self esteem standpoint.  It’s modern, and let’s face it, it’s fun!

You don’t need to gift these photos to a loved one. You can do it for YOURSELF, just because. Because you deserve it, because you own your sensuality, because no matter your age or where you are in your life you deserve to be seen, to love and celebrate yourself.

At risk of sounding like a Loreal commercial, you are worth it. 

5 - You get to Celebrate yourself and have fun!

When was the last time you did something just for you?  Took an afternoon alone, had a glass of wine, felt beautiful, didn’t rush yourself to school pickup or a zoom meeting or worry about tackling your never-ending to do list?

It’s not often I take a breather for myself but when I do… ahhh.  Just a few minutes of self-care where I can focus on myself goes a long way in centering myself, and lets me be a better mother, partner and photographer.

Of course, a boudoir shoot will not solve all of your body image and self esteem issues.  Only a lot of personal work and therapy can do that.  But I will say that some self-love and self-appreciation can go a long way in helping you build the confidence you need to make today better than yesterday. And so I will continue preaching - Do it and Do it for YOU. Your boudoir photoshoot will be something that is uniquely yours -  a risk that you were brave enough to take. 

Even if you feel unsure leading up to the shoot when you are in the moment, you will be amazed by the self esteem, confidence, and power that emanates from you, and when the photoshoot ends, and you see the results.  I suspect you will wonder why you ever doubted yourself in the first place.

xoxo, Stephanie

Are you looking to book a boudoir photoshoot in NYC? (ps I also travel)! Click below to learn more about the experience.

Best Boudoir Photographers in New York | Giggster Best Of List 2021

I’m honored to be listed as one of the top boudoir photographers in NYC by Giggster for the 3rd year running!

Giggster writes:

Women are the most beautiful and powerful beings in the world, and sometimes, a lot of them do not get to feel that way because of insecurities related to their looks and bodies. For some of them, it’s the drastic changes that come with pregnancy and childbirth; for others, it is society’s standards on what body type is beautiful and sexy.

In a bid to help women connect to their inner strength and reclaim their lost sexuality, confidence, and sense of self, boudoir photographers worldwide help them create intimate, sensual, empowering, and spirit-lifting boudoir photographs that help them feel much better about themselves. 

New York City has more women than men, and many of these women face the same challenges as their counterparts all over the world. To step in and offer solutions, many talented boudoir photographers in NYC have come up with studios used to create art. These highlighted creatives are incredible at what they do, and their works are highly commendable.

If you are looking to get the best boudoir images that will elevate you from within and lift your spirits in New York City, Brooklyn Boudoir is another top-rated boudoir photography brand to consider. The studio is run by native New Yorker Stephanie Bordas, a seasoned photography who has learned the ropes under some of America’s best boudoir photographers.

Stephanie’s worldwide perspective is evident in her works. She is a non-conformist that puts her subjects in poses that exemplify deep thoughts while making the most of every second spent with her.  

You can check out the full article here. Thank you, Giggster for the write up! I truly love what I do and it shows in my work!!

xoxo, Stephanie

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Renew + Refresh | Why You Need Boudoir More Than Ever This Year | New York City Portrait Photographer

As May begins I think a lot of people, myself included, are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel… 2021 probably ISN’T going to be the magical cure-all to 2020. There is still a seemingly long road ahead before we get back to “normal” BUT with so many New Yorkers now fully vaccinated, myself included, things do seem to be improving. All the same, lingering questions we were asking 13 months ago are still swirling around: when will my child return back to school? Is it really ok to eat inside a restaurant? Can I actually get a moment to myself without my kid/partner/pet nagging at my pant leg?

To all the mothers our there, I SEE YOU! Many of you have juggled home-schooling with work from home, with no breaks or escape from cabin-fever. It was not easy. I don’t know about you, but last year felt like I was just treading water, making no real headway on goals or life, and just trying to get by. And that’s ok. But I’m ready now to try and ACT, get out of my office chair (where you’ll find me sitting 97% of the time), and actually take care of myself again, and I’m guessing those of you reading this are feeling the same way.

So if you needed a little push or a some extra convincing, here are a few reasons that a Boudoir or Portrait shoot is the perfect way to renew and refresh yourself this spring and summer:

• Because there’s nothing like feeling good in your own skin. You may not think you have it in you, but I will bring it out in you. My goal when we are done is for you to be amazed with the woman in front of the mirror - the one who braved her fears, bested her insecurities and allowed herself to see clearly how amazing she is, just as she is.

• You deserve to look at yourself with loving eyes.

• You’ll have images of yourself feeling and looking your best as a reminder for yourself whenever you need an extra boost.

• You’ll gain confidence - really!

• Because saying “Yes, AND…” feels better than saying “No, but…”

• You’ll shake things up and step out of your comfort zone, proving to yourself that Yes, you CAN!

• Because you deserve a BREAK! A photoshoot is an excuse to get pampered and have some me time - this is something sooo important and something I myself and trying to be better about.

So as spring approaches, my wish for all of you is that we can give ourselves a break and take some time for ourselves. We have earned it!

xoxo, Stephanie

How are you going to celebrate yourself this spring? Contact me to see if a photoshoot is the right thing for you!

Seeing Your True Self on Valentine's Day | The Brooklyn Boudoir Experience | New York City Photographer

This one right here….THIS ONE had me crying and goosebumping and rejoicing in this path of work I’ve chosen for myself.

From the first time she emailed me, we just clicked. It was an instant connection. She even asked me if she should dye her hair before her shoot (funnily enough I had recommended NOT too… I don’t want women to hate a new hairstyle and have that put a damper on her entire image collection…but BOY was I wrong in this case!!). That hair is FIRE. I couldn’t believe it when she told me her whole life she had rocked long brown curly hair! This platinum crop just fit her so perfectly, made her beautiful Columbian skin glow … I can’t imagine her any other way. Even she said the new haircut made her feel most like herself. But… I digress.

At Brooklyn Boudoir, I try to impress upon women that this experience is about YOU. Sure, you may want to gift it to a loved one, but ultimately, and most importantly it’s a gift to yourself, from yourself. It is so important to celebrate yourself, as a woman, through a proper photo shoot experience. And happily this mindset seems to be catching on with my fellow boudoir photographers. While I’m happy to help you find a unique and fun valentines day / wedding / birthday gift, my goal is to give you the opportunity to love yourself, and to feel liberated, strong and powerful. I know that your images will forever be there to serve the woman in them and remind them of that stage in their life. 

This stunning client came to me with just this idea. She was a pivotal point in her life and was in need of a reminder of the strong and special woman she is. And let me tell you: she is incredible. Our chemistry completely comes though in these images - check out the bathtub images at the bottom of this post. This was completely her idea and captured in 5 minutes at the very end of the session. MAGIC! I am so grateful to have documented this exact place in life that she is in.  

In her words:

My experience with Stephanie/Brooklyn Boudoir has been one of the BEST experiences of MY LIFE. Beyond just being insanely talented, Stephanie provides an environment where you can not only be your True Self, but be vulnerable and sexy, in a safe and nurturing space. Allowing you to see your True Self like never before.

You have to truly be ready and WANT the experience. Want to feel sexy and pampered. Knowing that you DESERVE THIS. This experience is absolutely a Gift.

And with that, I’m covered with goosebumps. This is what it’s all about. It’s about opening eyes, gaining self love, shifting perspectives, and recognizing how incredible YOU are. Thank you SO much, L, for your kindness, your beautiful words, and most importantly for trusting me to give you this experience and these finished products. I’m over-the-moon that you have the most exquisite collection of images to treasure forever and can not wait to see them displayed up on your wall.

THANK YOU, Ms. L. YOU ARE AMAZING. 

XOXO, Stephanie

Ready to see YOUR true self and gift YOURSELF a Valentine? Contact me and let’s chat!

On Feeling Sexy | New York City Portrait + Boudoir Photographer

I say it often: at Brooklyn Boudoir, it's about more than “sexy” pictures. 

The photos are most definitely a perk. But, you'll see, it's WAY more about how the photos, and the whole experience, make you FEEL.  

When you FEEL sexy...damn. There's just no feeling like the confidence boost you get when you know you look damn good. For too many of us, that feeling doesn't present itself very often -- certainly not as often as it used to. 

I mean, do you remember those days... maybe you were in your 20s, maybe your early 30s, when you felt like you just RAN this city?  When you were kicking ass and taking names, when you wouldn't start your party until 10pm, when every weekend was a new opportunity for adventure?  

Were those times perfect?  Oh no, certainly they were not.  I've cared far too much about silly boys who ghosted, that one who texted on my birthday, that time I got dumped right before a friend's wedding... luckily this was all before the age of Tinder! BUT... I digress.

There's often confusion about the purpose of boudoir photography, probably because there are so many different interpretations of it. Some boudoir photographers present their work to the public as the ultimate gift for your spouse.  Some boudoir photographers present their work to the public as "naughty photos". 

Boudoir photography is something very different for me and for my clients. It's not about doing something "naughty" and it's usually not about doing something for anyone else. It's about getting that feeling back. It's about FEELING CONFIDENT AND STRONG. It's about knowing that she's still in there somewhere. It's about crushing your self-doubt. And it's about loving yourself...or at least learning to.

Can you do all that with your clothes on? Yes. Obviously you can. So why strip down? 

Let me ask you...isn't that when you feel the most vulnerable? Isn't that when you feel the most uncertain of yourself? For most women, it is. I know that feeling of "OH GOD. OH MY GOD. WHAT is THAT!?" as I spot a new bulge or dimple on my naked body in the mirror.  I know how devastating it is to see that photo that someone tagged you in on Facebook...the one you didn't even realize they were taking and you look like........ ***UN-TAG! UN-TAG!!! RED ALERT!***

It's a lot harder for us to love our stripped-down selves. But I know that if I can show you how incredible you are, how beautiful you are, how SEXY you are, WITHOUT your clothes...that you can rock some new found self-esteem whether you're wearing anything or not. 

SEXY is not something that you should only feel for your partner. It is something you should feel for yourself. It's infinitely powerful. There's no telling what you can do with that kind of confidence on your side.

I get the emails every single day.  Emails from women who have been following along for years, wishing they could be like the women that I post on my blog/website/social media. They assure me that they are nowhere near as sexy or confident or photogenic as my usual clients. I assure them, without even seeing them, THAT YES, THEY ARE. 

These aren't models. They are women just like you and me. They've got crazy lives and children and baggage and cellulite, and emotions and insecurities. They’ve been hit by 2020 in all sorts of ways and more than anything they just want a break.

Women don't come in to me and throw their clothes off and say "OK! I'm ready to be naked! I know I'm hot, so let's DO THIS!!!".  They come in nervous and sweating through their makeup application.  They come in with outfits they "can't believe" they're going to wear in daylight. They come in doubting their beauty. They come in thinking that they are going to be the first woman I'm not able to get a single good photo of. 

I prove them wrong. Every time. 

Yes, I want you to look GREAT in your photos. And I also want you to FEEL great, because when you feel great, you inevitably look great too, which makes you feel great, and on and on the cycle of self-love perpetuates.

Ready to look good & feel good? I’m currently booking late spring & early summer 2021. Let’s chat!

Common Myths about Boudoir Photography | New York Boudoir Studio

woman sitting in chair - Boudoir photography myths

Recently, several of my clients have expressed that before finding my website, that they didn’t think a boudoir shoot was for them. The reasons why varied from thinking it was a cheesy thing to do, to feeling like they needed a special occasion to use their boudoir as album as a gift. These are 2 of the most common misconceptions about boudoir, but there are so many others! So today’s blog post explores some other misconceptions surrounding boudoir photography.

1. Boudoir Photography is inherently cheesy.

   I’ll be honest - there IS a lot of cheesy boudoir photography out there.  A lot of boudoir photography of the past bordered on “glamour shots” done in a mall, and some of it remains that way… but it need not be that way! At Brooklyn Boudoir, there are no trendy instagram-like filters or dated treatments added to your images. I shoot a lot of black and white, use shallow depth of field and keep the overall look classic and classy. I want you to look and feel like yourself on your best day, not like someone else or as if you are in costume. Years from now, when you look back on these photos, I want them to stand the test of time, as opposed to you wondering “what was I thinking?? (like I do when I remember my overly plucked eyebrows of the late ‘90s) If playing dress-up is what you are after, by all means, get it, girl! That’s just not what I do. There are a wide range of styles out there so it’s important you do your research and find a photographer who’s style is line with yours. To me, timeless, elegance is what it’s all about.

2. I need to lose weight before my boudoir session.

   Just NO. No, you don't. Let me give you permission to celebrate who you are RIGHT NOW.  You can do a session today, and then again (and again!). It’s actually great fun to see your progress through the years. There is beauty in milestones… and no one can define what a “milestone” is for you. You can and should celebrate your life every time you decide to. About to try for a baby? Pregnant? Recently had a baby? Turing 43? Survived homeschooling and COVID quarantine? It’s ALL reason to celebrate. Still think you’re too overweight? Well, I challenge you ask yourself, compared to what standard? Personal story: I thought I was “too curvy” at 110 pounds in high school - how crazy is that?! I look back at myself at that time and WISH I had appreciated my body. And appreciated my body at 26, AND appreciated m body at 35. Now at 41, I’m nowhere near 110 pounds, barely in shape given the way 2020 has gone and yet I’m thankful to my body for all it’s done for me. Also remember, a professional boudoir photographer will know how to light, pose and dress you to compliment your current physique and all the curves that go with it. That’s why so many of my clients explain, “I can’t believe that’s ME” at their reveal. I can help you see yourself in a different, more forgiving, and more accurate (!) light than you can see yourself. Let me help you shatter your negative self-talk and help you create new, positive feelings about your body and yourself. The time for that, is NOW.

3. I’m too old to do a boudoir session.  

   Right after thinking you’re not fit enough for a boudoir shoot is thinking you are not young enough for one. Excuse while I cough and say: Bullsh*t. Are you too old to feel special? Appreciated? Beautiful? I would love for all women to embrace who they are throughout life’s many beautiful stages. Sure, you may not be that same girl as you were in your early 20s. Now you're even better...you're a woman. At Brooklyn Boudoir, you get to choose how you’re styled in a way that makes sense to you. Today's woman is better than yesterday's woman, and you are BOTH beautiful. Onwards and upwards friends. Age is not our enemy.

4. I need to be getting married/having an anniversary coming up to gift my images

   Sometimes, women need an excuse to do something nice for ourselves, or for choosing to spend money on ourselves. I get that. Your partner liking the byproduct of our session is surely a fun bonus to having a boudoir photo session. HOWEVER, this experience is for you and you alone. A boudoir shoot is a celebration to reacquaint with your feminine self, in whatever style you choose for it to be. You are more than a book, a framed picture or an album. As a woman, you are a work of art, and you deserve to feel that way. While your partner will surely apprecate the images, I suspect that it’s the WOMEN who will be opening up their albums time after time, feeling like a badass, and remembering the amazing day you had.

5. This isn’t “me” because I don’t see myself as sexy. 

   A boudoir shoot is an intimate portrait session. And so, it’s about intimacy, privacy and solitude. My job is to make you comfortable so you feel great in your own skin, and to draw you out to the person you know you are within. It’s YOUR version of sexy, not anyone else’s. So don’t worry about what you think you “need” to be, and just be you, and I promise you, that you will look and FEEL sexy as hell.

6. I’ll have to wear sexy lingerie for the session.

   Not even a little. There are no rules that say a boudoir session is about lingerie (see misconception #1). Fun lingerie is great if it’s your thing. But if it isn’t, you’ll look like you’re playing dressup, feel uncomortable and frankly, look uncomfortable. Brooklyn Boudoir is about creating YOUR intimate definition of beauty in any way you like. That can be in a sweater, in a negligee, in a white sheet, or in a ball gown! It’s about intimacy with your sense of self… not your wardrobe. Don’t bring a thing to your session, and we can still accomplish a fantastic shoot. I challenge you! ;)
    

7. My pictures will end up on the Internet.

   Absolutely not unless I have your express written consent. Client privacy is the number one priority for any reputable boudoir photographer. To us, your intimacy is a highly protected entity that we go to great lengths to secure, and share ONLY with your written permission. I love and respect all my clients, whether you choose to publish their images or not. It’s not required and has no affect on your experience or the outcome of your shoot.
    

8. I can shop around to get great deal for boudoir photography.  

   Ooh this is a hot topic. It’s true that a Brooklyn Boudoit shoot is an investment… an investment in YOURSELF. The blatant truth here is, you’ll get what you pay for.  A woman’s private moments should never feel a “bargain.” A boudoir session can be a life-changing experience, and you’re worth it! A professional photographer's trade is very expensive to run; therefore a highly skilled, reputable boudoir photographer is almost never “cheap” and does not "deep discount". I value my clients and value the service I provide to them. It’s worth saving up for the photographer you want, rather than the cheapest one out there. Because while the right photographer for you may not be cheap, you’ll want a photographer who will go the furthest lengths to earn every penny, with gratitude and a pursuit of excellence. I would venture to say that $500 spent on something you feel “meh” about and never look back at again is actually way more expensive than a $5000 life changing experience that you LOVED, feel transformed by, feel proud of, and can’t wait to do again.

9. It’s arrogant to hang pictures of myself around the house.

   Why? Is it arrogant to look in the mirror? To keep a journal? To meditate? Your portraits are no different. Years ago I read that every adult should have a casually placed photo of themselves looking their very best in their apartment. I’ve followed that advise since I got my first apartment, and let me tell you it feel great to see yourself looking fantastic every day. Your images won’t be lewd, they will be Art, and there is no shame being proud of yourself. My job is to help you love the woman you see on the wall as much as any other work of art that hangs in your home. There is NOTHING selfish about that.
    

10. My friends and family would not approve of me doing this.

    Well, that’s too bad on one hand, but also it’s FINE, because you’re not doing it for them. You’re doing it for YOU. You don’t need anyone else’s approval but your own. If your significant other does not appreciate the opportunity for you to feel special, confident and beautiful, that is their unfortunate choice. But you do not have to choose the same fate for yourself. You are your own person, with your own emotional needs. I respect the nature of your relationship but YOU as my client are my only priority and my person of concern. I grew up in a relateively conservative house and I was TERRIFIED of my family’s judgement when I decided to turn my business over to boudoir photography. I thought they would judge me, but instead they surprised me and have been completely supportive and interested in helping me build my business (ask my 70 year old uncle who kindly reminded me that I hadn’t blogged in a month, or my mom who recently joined instagram just so she could like my photos). So you never know. But, more importantly than that, you owe it to yourself to be true to yourself, in ALL things. Do it for you. Like so many other things in life, you’ll never regret doing it, but you likely will regret NOT doing it for the wrong reasons.

11. I’ll be a nervous wreck the whole time.

    EVERYONE is nervous at first. Of course! This is natural - after all, most people have never been photographed professionally, much less in a state of undress. But trust me, after photographing hundreds of women, I can honetly tell you that the nerves fall away after about 10 minutes. You’ll get in the makeup chair, we’ll get to know each other, you’ll feel primped and pampered, and the shoot will be happening before you ever know it. I’m a professional, and I’m really good at making women feel comfortable. Your tension will seamlessly melt away and I’ll help you get into your groove. And if by chance, the tension lingers, I have lots of tricks to help you fake it til you make it.
    

12. My photographer is going to think my idea is crazy, but…

    Ladies, I have seen and heard it all before. I want to hear what makes you tick, what your fanatasy shoot might be and will do my best to bring it to fruition. If I cannot accommodate your idea, I can certainly refer you to another photographer who may be able to. Your ideas about beauty and intimacy are yours and not up for my judgment.
    

13. This is a once in a lifetime experience.

    Well, yes and no. You can do this once for your bucket list; Or, you can do it year after year, as many times as you’d like. Several of my clients come back every few years, and I promise you, each time we shoot together the images get more and more beautiful. I host several past client only events every year so that my past clients can get a little Brooklyn Boudoir fix from time to time as well to treat my VIPs to a little something special. Every time we shoot we capture something different andit just gets better and better. Even if you’ve shot with me 10 time before, each time you come to set it will feel like a once in a lifetime experience, that I promise you!

What other misconceptions do you think people have about boudoir photography? I’d love to hear and prove them wrong! ;)

xoxo, Stephanie

Curious about a boudoir shoot with me? Contact me and I can tell you more!



The Bombshell Inside You | Brooklyn Boudoir Photography | Client Experience

I hear it all the time at reveals: “I can’t beleive that’s ME!”

My personal boudoir philosophy involves rocking your beauty right NOW. Yes, we do hair and makeup and even lightly retouch photos a tiny bit, but I pride myself on bringing out the inner bombshell without completely changing someone's authentic appearance. After all, if you LOVED the photos but they weren't truly of yourself...rather a model caked with makeup and photoshopped to death — where would be the pride in that? I myself have had that very experience, when I had my first boudoir shoot many years ago. I didn’t do my research and went with someone I found on Groupon because it seemed like a good price. MISTAKE! I was made up like a Kardashian, which is not my style AT ALL, complete with the worst Muppet-like false eyelashed I’ve ever seen. I didn’t feel like myself and so I never look at the photos, because I don’t recognize the woman in them.

When I started Brooklyn Boudoir, it was of the utmost importance that at MY studio, you'll always look like you, on your best, happiest, most well-rested day ;)  It doesn’t matter what you look really, or if you consider yourself the “kind of woman” who would have a boudoir shoot - I mean, what is that, anyway? We all have our version of what it means to be a woman, what it means to be the best versions of ourselves, what it means to feel free to be who you are, and THAT is what I am after when I capture someone.

In my years as a boudoir photographer, I’ve seen first hand that we are ALL have that beautiful, confident woman within us. For some it may be hidden a little deeper, but even the shyest or most skeptical of women find that given the chance to express it freely, without embarrassment or judgement, they can find that person within them. It isn’t about looks at all, actually. It’s about giving yourself permission to feel good about yourself, to feel confidant in your own skin, to let yourself be all the things you want to be, without external forces getting in the way, causing you to overthink it away. You can be a mom and be desirable. You can be a teacher and still be sensual. You can be a lawyer and still have fun. You can be X pounds heavier than what you think you should be and still be completely beautiful and free in your body.

Enter Ms. C — SUPER intellegent, and completely unique. She’s not the kind of person to gush or express herself overly enthusiastically - in fact in our pre-shoot correspondnce she commented that she doesn’t use exclimation points lightly as is the trend these days. A boudoir shoot was defintiely outside her comfort zone, but here she was, rocking her shoot, having a blast, showing her confident self, trusting me, and getting some absolutely FABULOUS images to be forever proud of.

In her own words:

This experience was amazing. It was fun, completely comfortable, and I love the pictures. Even though I planned it as a gift for my husband, I fully intend to do it again just for me. It actually makes me a bit emotional, as this is the first time in my adult life that I've felt happy about my body and my appearance. I tend to hide from cameras and from mirrors, but I can't stop looking at these. It is really very meaningful, and Stephanie is brilliant at what she does.

Well of course, this made ME emotional!! She’s obviously beautiful, but none of that means anything unless you yourself believe it to be true. And ladies, let me tell you, you ARE beautiful. The details aren’t important. A few pounds here, a few wrinkles there… none of it matters. We are all beautiful. My wish for women, and my passion in this career, is to help women realize this and see it … or rather, KNOW it and BELIEVE it for themselves.

Ms. C’s advise for those considering doing a boudoir session?: 

1. Do it!
2. Book one of the recommended packages because you are going to want all of your pictures.
3. You don't need a 'reason'.
4. Bring fun clothes that make you feel pretty.

I couldn’t love this any more, particularly numbers 1 - 3 because they are SO TRUE.

So if you are considering a shoot but think it isn’t “you,” trust me. We will find a way to make it you and I will only ever bring out the best in who you really are.

xoxo, Stephanie

Ready to book your session? Contact me and let’s chat.

Celebrate Yourself | Birthday Boudoir Photoshoot | Client Experience

Once in awhile, you meet a someone who is so charasmatic, so real, so present in each day, it inspires you to get out of whatever rut you are in and DO something.

This woman right here….THIS ONE had me goosebumping and rejoicing in this path of work I’ve chosen for myself. Ms. B contacted me to celebrate herself on her birthday. It wasn’t a milestone birthday per se, just a good excuse for a badass woman to take some “Me” time and have herself a fantastic day that began with our boudoir shoot. To be honest, I was just coming off of my maternity leave and wasn’t entirely sure I was ready, but she was so kind and sweet and trusting, as soon as we started emailing, I knew it was the right time for me to go back to work. And I am just so happy that I did!! That day I not only met a beautiful client, I also made a friend.

Ms. B is so full of life, it’s impossible not to feel energized in her presence. I mean - look at this smile! We connected right away. She’s a nurse, a mother, and a dancer, so you know we had a lot to talk about. She performs Bomba, a traditional Puerto Rican dance — look it up if you aren’t familiar with it! It’s a truly exhuberent & joyful art form, and Ms. B here embodies the spirit of the dance.

I found the perfect location for what she was looking for - a hotel suite on the Brooklyn/Queens border that was the size of my entire house. Exposed brick, huge windows on 2 sides and some beautiful leather furniture gave a sexy masculine/feminine vibe. We captured 3 very different looks, including this gorgeous Thistle & Spire bodysuit that is one of my favorite pieces to photograph right now. Each look celebrated a part of her personality, from sensitive, to playful, to saucy, to powerful QUEEN. She BROUGHT IT, let her personality shine, and we captured some truly beautiful images together.

And what about that incredible tattoo? After suffering a knee injury & subsequent surgury, she transformed her scar into a beautiful tree branch alive with butterflies. Breathtaking.

In her own words:

My experience was beyond my imaginations and will be for me one of the best experiences I’ve done for myself. That moment my finger hit send, I was taken on an amazing journey, I felt supported, guided and genuinely cared for, all my questions answered and all the recommendations absolutely perfect. But more so Stephanie made sure she got to know me, just me, And that was everything.

Leave all the baggage that holds you back at the door. Be open to this amazing experience, there is only one you! Stephanie will absolutely bring out the best in you! So do your homework it’s all worth it! On My 53 Birthday, stepping into a new Decade (2020) Stephanie and her makeup artist made me feel like the most beautiful woman on earth. You will too! I should have done this sooner!

And with that, I’m again covered with goosebumps. This is what it’s all about. It’s about taking a journey into self love, bringing out the best in oneself, and recognizing how incredible YOU are. Thank you SO much, Ms. B, for your inspiration, collaboration, kindness, your beautiful words, and most importantly for trusting me to give you this experience and these finished products. You are amazing, and I’m over-the-moon that you have the most exquisite collection of images to treasure forever.

Ready to celebrate yourself? Contact me and let’s chat!