Is Boudoir Photography Supposed to Feel Awkward?

Short answer:

A little unfamiliar at first? Yes. Painfully awkward, exposed, or like you’re doing something wrong the whole time? NO.

There’s a difference between new and bad, and boudoir photography tends to get mislabeled because people expect to feel confident before they start. That’s rarely how it actually works.

Let’s talk about what’s normal, what’s not, and what actually helps.

The Kind of “Awkward” That Is Normal

Most people don’t spend their free time being photographed in lingerie. So yes — the first few minutes can feel unfamiliar.

That usually looks like:

• Not knowing where to put your hands

• Feeling hyper-aware of your body at first

• Needing a minute to settle into the space

This isn’t a personal failing. It’s just your nervous system clocking that you’re doing something new.

A well-run boudoir session accounts for this. It doesn’t expect you to walk in glowing with confidence and ready to perform.

The Kind of Awkward That’s a Red Flag

Here’s where it’s worth being honest.

If a boudoir session feels awkward because:

• You don’t know what’s happening next

• You feel rushed or pressured

• You’re being asked to pose in ways that don’t feel like you

• Your discomfort is brushed off or minimized

That’s not “normal nerves.” That’s a lack of guidance or attunement.

Awkwardness that lingers usually means something in the process isn’t working — not that you’re doing it wrong.

How Confidence Actually Shows Up (Hint: It’s Not Immediate)

Confidence in boudoir photography is often the result of the session, not the prerequisite.

It tends to build quietly, through:

• Clear direction

• Predictable pacing

• Small successes early on

• Feeling listened to

This is why sessions that start slower and simpler tend to produce stronger images. Once your body relaxes, expression follows.

What Helps Ease the Awkwardness

A few things that genuinely make a difference:

Clear Process

Knowing what’s going to happen — before you walk in — reduces unnecessary anxiety. When nothing feels mysterious, your brain can stand down a little.

Direction Without Force

Good direction doesn’t freeze you into shapes. It offers movement, suggestions, and room to adjust.

Conversation

Light chatting, occasional humor, and normal human interaction go a long way. Silence doesn’t automatically equal intimacy.

Respect for Your Cues

If something feels off, it’s noticed. If something feels good, we stay there longer. Your body gives feedback long before words do.

What You’re Not Supposed to Do

You are not expected to:

• Know how to pose

• Be confident the entire time

• Push through discomfort to “get the shot”

• Become a different version of yourself

If a session relies on any of those things, it’s set up backwards.

The Goal Isn’t to Eliminate Awkwardness

The goal isn’t to never feel awkward.

It’s to work with someone who knows how to guide you through that initial unfamiliarity without making it a big deal.

When that happens, the awkwardness usually passes quietly — replaced by focus, presence, and a sense of being held competently.

If You’re Wondering What the Experience Actually Looks Like

If it helps to see the full arc — from planning to finished images, this post walks through what actually happens during a boudoir photoshoot, step by step.

And if you’re still in research mode more generally, this overview of boudoir photography in NYC gives broader context around styles, pricing, and choosing the right photographer.

A boudoir session doesn’t need bravado.

It needs professionalism, pacing, and respect.

The rest tends to take care of itself.

xoxo, Stephanie

Walking the Walk: What Changed When I Stepped in Front of the Camera

Photo by Leo Brooklyn. Shot on film.

I recently found myself admitting something to a photographer friend that felt a little ironic, given what I do for a living: I hadn’t bought lingerie for myself in a long time.

She didn’t overthink it. She didn’t therapize it.
She just looked at me and said, “Let’s change that.”

The rules were simple. She would style me in lingerie of her choosing, and photograph me at my studio, in her style.

Now, I’ve been photographed many times before. Usually the work leans documentary, fine art, or portrait. This was different. This was classic boudoir — stockings, heels, the whole thing.

And yes, I was out of my comfort zone.

Wearing a bra by Pepper and garters by Dita Von Tease. Photo by Leo Brooklyn

When the lingerie arrived, I tried it on and immediately felt like I was wearing a costume. The mental image of a sausage — possibly a cooked ham — made an appearance. Not ideal.

But I was committed, so I folded everything back into the box, put those thoughts on a shelf, and went on with my life.

A few days before the shoot, I knew I had to try everything on again. I was dreading it. And then something interesting happened.

This time, instead of feeling like a cooked ham, I felt… kind of okay.

Nothing had changed physically. If anything, I was a few pounds heavier post-holidays. But mentally, I was in a different place. Calmer. More centered. Less interested in narrating my body to myself.

That shift mattered.

photo by Leo Brooklyn

On the day of the shoot, I had to give myself the same pep talk I give my clients. Even when you know that boudoir is about letting go of control, quieting the negative self-talk, and trusting the process — actually doing it is hard. Yes, even when you know all the tricks.

But it’s also important.

And the shoot itself? It was genuinely fun.

When I finally saw the photos a few weeks later, I braced myself. I assumed I wouldn’t like any of them. And of course, I did.

Had to do the classic Brooklyn Boudoir Floor pose. Photo by Leo Brooklyn

Here’s the real takeaway.

Nothing dramatic changed.
I wasn’t suddenly in the best shape of my life.
There was no transformation montage.

What changed was how I showed up.

I wasn’t negotiating with the camera.
I wasn’t trying to perform.
I trusted the person behind the lens and let myself be seen.

And that made all the difference.

Boudoir isn’t about upgrading how you look.
It’s about opting out of performance.

Still works.
Even when you know all the tricks.

Lingerie by Honey Birdette. Photo by Leo Brooklyn

What Actually Happens During a Boudoir Photoshoot (From Start to Finish)

Stephanie photographing a client in the Brooklyn Boudoir Studio

If you’ve never done a boudoir photoshoot before, the unknown part is usually the hardest.

Not the outfits. Not your body. The not knowing what’s going to happen.

This post is here to calmly walk you through the process — no hype, no transformation language, no dramatic promises. Just a clear picture of how a boudoir session actually works, from planning to finished images.

First: Timing (This Is the Part People Often Miss)

If you want albums or prints in hand by a specific date — a birthday, anniversary, or just because — plan to start about two to three months ahead.

That gives us room to:

• Schedule your shoot without rushing

• Prepare thoughtfully

• Review images together

• Produce and deliver finished artwork

Boudoir is not a last-minute thing, and it’s better for everyone when it’s not treated like one. The last thing I want is for us to stress, but instead have a fun and relaxed time together, with plenty of space to breathe.

Step 1: Booking the Session

Once you reach out, I’ll give you all the details you need to make an informed decision about doing a shoot together, and we schedule your shoot date.

At this stage, you’re not expected to have everything figured out. That comes later. Booking simply secures your spot on my calendar and gets the process moving.

Step 2: Prep, Guidance, and Getting on the Same Page

After booking, you’ll receive a prep guide that covers the practical things people usually worry about: what to bring, how to prepare, and what to expect.

You’ll also get a short homework assignment — nothing intense — designed to help me understand your style, preferences, and what you’re drawn to visually. This isn’t about performance; it’s about alignment.

I’ll check in with you to see if you’d like a consultation. Some people love talking things through. Others prefer email and some just want to read and reflect. All of these approaches are fine - I’ll never force you to get on a call.

As your shoot approaches, I’ll send last‑minute reminders, a packing list, exact location and parking info so you have everything you need at your fingertips. Nothing feels forgotten or rushed.

Stephanie will give you all the information you need leading up to the photoshoot.

Step 3: The Day of the Shoot

When you arrive, we don’t jump straight into photos.

We chat first. We settle in. We give your nervous system a minute to catch up.

You’ll then have professional hair and makeup done. This is not about becoming someone else — it’s about polish and ease. Once hair and makeup are finished, the artist leaves so we have full privacy for the shoot.

Step 4: The Photoshoot Itself

The session lasts about 90 minutes, and it’s paced intentionally.

We start simple and more demure. Nothing intense, nothing rushed. As you warm up, we gradually move into images that feel stronger, bolder, or more “rawr” — only if and when that feels right to you.

You are never expected to:

• Know how to pose

• Look perfect

• Be “on” the whole time

That’s my job.

How I Direct (Without Forcing)

Direction doesn’t mean barking instructions or locking you into shapes.

It looks more like:

• Conversation

• Light, sometimes silly jokes

• Movement prompts rather than frozen poses

• Paying attention to your body language and energy

• Adjusting in real time based on what feels best for you

If something doesn’t feel right, we don’t do it. Full stop.

Consent isn’t a form you sign once — it’s an ongoing conversation throughout the shoot.

At the reveal and ordering appointment, Stephanie helps you select the photos you want to keep. Everything is lightly retouched so what you see at the reveal is what you get - no mysteries.

Step 5: Reviewing Your Photos

About 2–3 weeks later, we meet again — either on Zoom or in person — to review your images.

This is a guided process. The images you see will ALL be lightly retouched, color corrected and many will be in black and white. You don’t need to use your imagination to know what the final photos will look like - you will see the photos that you will get. You’re not left alone to scroll and decide in a vacuum. We talk through what you’re drawn to, what feels like you, and how you want to enjoy the images moving forward.

Step 6: Final Images and Delivery

Once selections are finalized, your images go into production.

About 3–4 weeks later, your finished artwork is ready. Depending on what you’ve chosen, you’ll either pick it up or have it delivered to you.

At that point, the experience is complete — unrushed, considered, and intact. It’s less of a “goodbye” and more of an, “Until next time.”

A Few Things Worth Saying Out Loud

A boudoir photoshoot does not require:

• Confidence from the start

• A certain body type

• Prior experience

• A personality overhaul

It does require:

• Professional guidance

• Clear communication

• Respect for your boundaries

• Time and space to ease in

That’s what makes the difference between an experience that feels performative and one that feels grounded.

If you’re the kind of person who wants to know what you’re walking into — not be sold a fantasy — this is how it works.

No surprises. Just process. if you want to read more about choosing the right boudoir photographer for you, I blogged about it here.

How to Choose a Boudoir Photographer in NYC (Without Regretting It Later)

Let’s get one thing straight: booking a boudoir photographer in NYC is not like ordering takeout. This isn’t about finding the cheapest option or whoever has the most Instagram followers. This is about trust, taste, chemistry, and walking away with images that actually feel like you.

New York has no shortage of boudoir photographers. The hard part isn’t finding one — it’s choosing the right one. So let’s talk about how to do that, without spiraling, overspending, or ending up with photos that make you say, “Why did I agree to this?”

Editorial Boudoir In New York City

1. Start With Style (And Be Honest About Your Edge)

Every boudoir photographer has a point of view. Some lean soft and romantic. Some are bold and editorial. Some are playful, some are sultry, some live firmly in NC-17 territory.

Before you book, ask yourself:

• Do I want something classic and timeless, or more fashion-forward?

• Do I want implied sensuality, or something more explicit?

• Do these images feel like someone I recognize as me or do I want to step into some fantasy?

This part matters more than people think. For example, my work sits firmly in the confident, sensual, PG-13-to-R range. I don’t shoot explicit content, and I’m very upfront about that. If someone is looking for explicit imagery, I’m not their photographer — and that’s not a failure, that’s a good filter.

Look closely at a photographer’s portfolio. If you’re hoping they’ll “tone it down” or “push it further” just for you, pause. You want someone whose existing work already feels aligned.

30th birthday boudoir photoshoot celebration

2. Vibe Check the Photographer (This Is Huge)

You’re going to be photographed in lingerie — or less. The vibe between you and your photographer matters.

You should feel:

• Comfortable asking questions

• Seen, not performed at (who wants a photographer who is reading to you from a script?)

• Like the photographer knows what they’re doing without needing to prove it

Read their website copy. Does it feel human? Grounded? Clear? Or does it feel like marketing fluff, AI generated, generic and/or overpromising?

If the photographer offers consultations, pay attention to how you feel after. Calm is good. Clear is good. Pressured is not.

A boudoir shoot should feel collaborative, not like you’re being dragged through someone else’s fantasy.

The relationship between client and photographer is one of the most important factors to a successful shoot.

3. Their Website Should Explain the Process (If It Doesn’t, That’s a Red Flag)

A reputable boudoir photographer in NYC should clearly explain:

• What happens before, during, and after the shoot

• What’s included in the session

• How images are delivered

• What products or collections cost

You should not have to hunt for basic information or decode vague language.

Transparency builds trust. Confusion creates anxiety — and no one needs extra anxiety before a boudoir shoot.

4. Don’t Price Shop — But Do Watch for Hidden Costs

Real talk: no one wants a budget boudoir photographer.

Boudoir is a luxury service. You’re paying for an experience, discretion, guidance, lighting, retouching, and someone who knows how to photograph bodies like they’ve seen one before.

That said, you do want clarity.

Make sure you understand:

• The session fee

• Whether images are included or purchased separately

• Minimum spends (if any)

• Product pricing (albums, prints, digitals)

Surprises should be emotional (in a good way!), not financial (in a bad way).

If pricing is intentionally vague or feels evasive, trust your instincts.

5. Reputation Matters (Especially in NYC)

New York is a small world disguised as a big city.

Look for:

• Consistent reviews

• Longevity (have they been doing this for more than a hot minute?)

• A professional online presence

You’re trusting someone with intimate images. This is not the place to gamble on someone who’s still figuring out their workflow.

6. Choose the Photographer Who Makes You Feel Like Yourself

The best boudoir photos don’t come from “trying” to be sexy.

They come from feeling safe, understood, and just self-possessed enough to let your guard down.

When you find the right boudoir photographer in NYC, you’ll know. Things will feel clear. Grounded. Exciting in a steady way.

That’s the sweet spot.

And if you’re looking for boudoir photography in Brooklyn or NYC that’s confident, thoughtful, and very much uninterested in performative sexy — you’re welcome to explore my work at Brooklyn Boudoir.

No pressure. Just information. The way it should be.

She wanted to recreate a class Marilyn Monroe shot.

This Wasn’t About the Photos

There’s a moment during a boudoir session that never makes it to Instagram.

I see it often in my Brooklyn, New York studio — though it has very little to do with where we are.

It’s quiet. Almost invisible.

It’s the moment she realizes she doesn’t have to perform.

Not for the camera.
Not for me.
Not for the version of herself she thinks she’s supposed to be.

That’s usually when the shift happens.

(It’s also what I walk clients through when they ask what a session actually feels like — something I outline more clearly on my Experience page.)

The photos are beautiful — but that’s not the point

Yes, the images matter. They’re artful. Intentional. Thoughtfully lit.

But if modern boudoir photography were only about getting “good photos,” women wouldn’t still be talking about their sessions months — sometimes years — later.

What stays with them isn’t the pose.
It’s the feeling of being seen without managing the moment.

No sucking in.
No performing confidence.
No explaining themselves into comfort.

Just presence.

A different kind of confidence

This confidence doesn’t arrive loudly.

It doesn’t strut.
It doesn’t announce itself.

It settles.

It shows up as self-trust.
As ease in their body.
As a quieter relationship with the mirror.

Women often tell me they expected to feel bold.
What they didn’t expect was to feel grounded.

That’s the difference.

Modern boudoir isn’t about transformation

There’s a tired narrative around boudoir photography that suggests women come in broken and leave fixed.

That’s not what’s happening here.

No one is being reinvented.
No one is being improved.

What is happening is a remembering.

Of what it feels like to take up space in your own body.
Of what it’s like to be witnessed without being edited.
Of how it feels when you don’t have to earn softness or permission.

Being seen — without shrinking

For many women, being seen has always come with conditions.

Be smaller.
Be palatable.
Be impressive, but not too much.

A boudoir session — done intentionally — removes those conditions.

This is the heart of the experience I describe in The Experience page — not the logistics, but the emotional landscape women move through.

There’s nothing to prove.
Nothing to explain.
Nothing to perform.

Just you, as you are, holding your own gaze.

This is what women take with them

The photos may hang on a wall or live quietly in a drawer.

But what stays is the internal shift.

The confidence that doesn’t need validation.
The comfort of knowing how it feels to be fully present in your body.
The memory of being seen — and not disappearing.

Here’s what Ms. A said, in her own words:

I would give Stephanie TEN stars if I could. She is, without question, the best in the business—not just because she creates stunning, timeless images, but because she empowers women in a way that is deeply needed and profoundly rare. So many photographers don’t prepare you, don’t guide you, and don’t take the time to understand the style and story you want your photos to hold. Steph does all of that and more.

The shoot itself was transformative. Posing in an intimate space, with no man present, felt almost magical. I want to call it an out-of-body experience, but the truth is I have never felt so in my body. For the first time, I wasn’t treating myself like a specimen to be judged from the outside. The mind–body connection was refreshing, liberating, and grounding all at once—like gracefully dancing through time.

Stephanie is the reason that happened. She made me feel safe, seen, and powerful. She is a true professional and a true artist, and she understands that the best boudoir photography requires the model to feel comfortable, appreciated, and personally cared for. Intimacy in front of a camera is real intimacy, and she knows how to create the space for it. Somehow, within our hour of on-site prep, she built a safe environment that felt custom-tailored to me. I walked into a beautiful sign with my name on it and every comfort I could have asked for.

What Stephanie does matters. Women spend so much of our lives hating our bodies, or mourning them as they change. Many don’t even get moments of self-love—only regret years later for a version of themselves they barely remember. Our bodies evolve, grow, and carry us, yet we rarely celebrate them in the moment. Steph gives us the chance to commemorate ourselves—not with stale “archives,” but with sensual, dimensional, dynamic portraits that honor who we are right now.

I’ve seen this pattern in the women in my life—my mother, my grandmother. They were once vibrant, beautiful, and unaware of it. Their bodies changed, and the memories faded. I didn’t want that for myself. Thanks to Steph, I don’t have to.

If you are considering a boudoir shoot, go to Steph. Do it for yourself. Do it to reclaim your body, to celebrate it, to remember it accurately and lovingly. She will give you not only extraordinary photographs, but an experience that shifts something deep inside you. I cannot recommend her enough.

I came to her for myself—to archive the body that has carried me through an emotional roller coaster of a life. For years, I’ve battled my own reflection, swinging between moments of appreciation and stretches of sabotage. Booking with Brooklyn Boudoir was my attempt to choose love over criticism. I expected beautiful, artistic photos; what I received was that and the discovery of a power I didn’t know I had

Stephanie’s care begins long before shoot day. She went above and beyond to prepare me emotionally and physically. You’ll be informed of the details re: what to bring, how to prep etc and every question you have beyond her initial directions will be answered with clarity and warmth. So don’t worry and just mentally jump/dance your way in!

That’s what this work is about.

Not changing how you look.
But changing how you relate to yourself when you’re seen.

And once that changes?

Nothing looks quite the same again.

xoxo, Stephanie

5 Things to Bring to a Boudoir Shoot (Hint: None Are Clothes) | New York Boudoir Photographer

You’ve booked the shoot.
You’ve scheduled the hair, the makeup, the location.
You’re excited… and maybe a little nervous (totally normal, by the way).
And now you’re wondering: What should I bring?

Here’s the truth: you don’t need a suitcase full of lingerie to have an unforgettable boudoir session.
The most powerful things you can bring with you aren’t even visible on camera — but they show up in every single frame.

Here are the five most important things to pack for your boudoir shoot (none of which need to be steamed or dry cleaned):

1. An Open Mind

Boudoir is about exploration — of your body, your confidence, your sensuality. Some moments will feel electric. Some might feel tender or unfamiliar. The magic happens when you stay open to the process and let go of the idea that you need to “perform.”

You don’t need to know how to pose.
You don’t need to have modeling experience.
You just need to show up and trust that you’re in good hands.

2. Trust in Your Photographer (That’s Me 👋)

Listen — I’ve got you.
From the second you arrive, I’m reading your energy, guiding your movements, and directing you with care and intention. My job is to make you feel comfortable, powerful, and fully supported every step of the way.

Bring trust into the room with you, and I promise: you’ll walk out of your shoot feeling 10 inches taller.

3. A Willingness to Let Go

Let go of expectations. Let go of how you think you should look. Let go of that one angle you always default to in selfies.

You don’t need a “good side.” You don’t need to hide anything. You just need to let yourself be seen.

Some of the most breathtaking images happen in the in-between — when you exhale, when you laugh, when you surrender to the moment.

4. Something That Makes You Feel Like You

This might be a favorite lipstick, a playlist that hypes you up, a piece of jewelry from someone you love, or a scent that reminds you who the f*ck you are. 💅

Boudoir isn’t always about playing dress-up (unless you want it to be).

It’s about revealing, not masking — and anything that anchors you in your real, radiant self will elevate the entire experience.

5. Self-Compassion

This might be the most important thing of all.

You are not “too” anything — not too old, not too curvy, not too awkward, not too late.

You are already worthy. Already enough.
This shoot isn’t about becoming someone else — it’s about coming home to you.

So pack some grace. Bring a little softness. You’re doing something brave and beautiful. That deserves to be celebrated.

Ready to Step Into Your Power this summer?

If you’ve been thinking about booking a boudoir session but waiting until you “feel more confident,” let me lovingly remind you: confidence doesn’t come before the shoot — it comes because of it.

Your job is to show up. I’ll handle the rest.

📸 Late Summer sessions are now open — your glow-up is waiting.

xoxo, Stephanie

Summer Is the Perfect Time for Boudoir — and How It Can Be a Radical Act of Self-Love

Let’s be honest: summer has a reputation.

It’s the season we’re supposed to look our “best.” The season of diet culture, comparison, and pressure. The season where we’re told to cover up or slim down.

But I have another idea:

What if this summer wasn’t about shrinking or hiding…
What if it was about expanding? About being seen — on your own terms?

A boudoir shoot in the summer isn’t just a fun, sexy thing to do (though yes, it is absolutely that). It’s a radical decision to take up space, take back the narrative, and celebrate your body exactly as it is — right now.

🌺 Why Summer Is Actually the Best Time for Boudoir

1. You Already Feel More in Your Body
   We’re out more. We’re wearing less. We’re moving more freely — not bundled up in layers. It’s the season of connection to the senses, which makes it the perfect time to reconnect with yourself.

2. Sun-Kissed Confidence Is Real
   There’s something about that golden-hour glow and bare shoulders in the mirror. Summer just has a feeling — and when you channel that energy into a boudoir shoot, the results are breathtaking.

3. Your Future Self Will Thank You
   Whether you’re capturing a moment of self-growth, reclaiming your sensuality, or simply documenting your beauty — you’ll look back at these photos and remember how alive you felt. They’re not just photos. They’re proof.

✨ Boudoir as a Radical Act of Self-Love

Here’s the truth: we live in a culture that profits from our insecurity.
It tells us we need to change, shrink, smooth, filter, and fix ourselves before we’re allowed to feel beautiful.

That’s why stepping in front of the camera just as you are — unapologetically — is radical.
It’s an act of rebellion against every message that’s ever made you feel “less than.”
It’s choosing to say, “I am worthy. I am art. I am enough.”

And doing it in the summer, when those old insecurities tend to be the loudest?
That’s power. That’s alchemy. That’s transformation.

☀️ Ready to Rewrite Your Summer Story?

If you’ve ever told yourself,
“I’ll book a shoot when I lose the weight.”
“I’ll do it when I feel more confident.”
“I’ll do it later…”

Let this be your sign:
Confidence doesn’t come before the shoot. It comes because of it.
And summer? Summer is waiting for you to show up.

So here’s your invitation:
Celebrate your softness. Embrace your edge.
Wear the lingerie. Be the muse. Let yourself be fully, gorgeously seen.

Your summer starts here.

xoxo, Stephanie

A Mother’s Day Letter From My Heart to Yours | Stephanie Bordas of Brooklyn Boudoir Photography

Mother’s Day always brings me into reflection — and this year, I wanted to write you something straight from the heart.

I wasn’t always in a rush to become a mom. It wasn’t on a strict timeline for me — and yet, here I am today, with kids I adore and a deep love for the role I get to play as their mother.

It’s beautiful, yes. But also? It’s complex, stretching, and hard to balance sometimes.

We give so much of ourselves as mothers, business owners, creatives, and caretakers. And it’s easy to forget that we have to be there for ourselves too — as much (if not more) as we are for our kids.

I feel so grateful to have built a business that supports women and mothers. It gives me the flexibility to be the mom I want to be: the one who can do school drop-offs and pickups, the one who takes the after-school hours to focus on homework and bedtime snuggles — even if it means working into the quiet hours of the night after they’re asleep.

And yet, like many of you, I still have those moments where I wonder: Am I doing enough?
I feel guilty when I miss a school trip or can’t be there for every moment. But here’s what I remind myself — and what I hope you’ll remember too:

I want to teach my daughter how to love and care deeply for others without sacrificing her own dreams, values, and desires. I want her to see what it looks like to show up fully for her family and for herself.

So this Mother’s Day, I’m celebrating all of us — the mothers, the nurturers, and the women building lives that honor both their families and their hearts.

You are enough.
You are doing so much more than you realize.
And I’m standing in your corner, cheering you on every step of the way.

Happy Mother’s Day,
xoxo, Stephanie

Paris, Lingerie, Boudoir + A Lesson in French Confidence 🇫🇷✨

I just got back from the most incredible trip to Paris, and I have to share some moments with you—especially if you’ve ever dreamed of shooting in the City of Light. 🌆📸

I have had the honor of collaborating with ​Sugar Cookies Lingerie​ for over 4 years now, and this was our third trip to the City of Light together. It had always been my dream to capture stunning boudoir imagery in some of the most breathtaking Parisian locations—think golden balconies, moody hotel rooms, and yes… the Eiffel Tower in the background. And I am thrilled to have made that dream happen once again this year. ♥️

But these epic boudoir photoshoots were just the beginning…

Here are some other highlights from our unforgettable trip:

✨ Cocktail party & fashion presentation with Maison Close – Their wonderful team even created a signature cocktail in Maison Close Purple in honor of our event! I always thought Maison Close was too sexy for a woman "my age" but I was proven wrong - their new ready-to-wear collection is everything, and you’ll soon find it at Sugar Cookies! I purchased the black tuxedo pants with lace - something I had been thinking about ever since I saw them in person at the August trade show!

✨ A history & atelier visit with couture corset makers Cadolle – This was our attendee's favorite event last year so we went back to the beautiful jewel box of a shop and learned about the importance of a properly fitting bra and the differences between French and American Styles when it comes to the feminine ideal. Seeing their craftsmanship up close was a masterclass in lingerie artistry.

✨ A showroom tour + sneak peek of Aubade’s Fall/Winter collection – We even got to visit the team of seamstresses working on prototypes. Aubade is a staple of everyday luxury, and their new designs are going to be stunning.

✨ A tour of the Dior Museum – These highly coveted tickets are tough to come by but we had to visit for the fashion, as well as the Peter Lindbergh exhibit (my favorite photographer!) So many instagramable moments here!

✨ A personal chat with designer Paloma Casile – This was a new brand discovery for me. Paloma's passion for lingerie as both fashion and empowerment was beyond inspiring, as was her tenacity as a young, female business owner. I even made a bold purchase for myself (see above)!

✨ An epic evening of burlesque & champagne at Crazy Horse Cabaret – Because no trip to Paris is complete without a little Parisian glamour and tease. 😉

And then there was this moment…

During a breathtaking hotel balcony shoot, my client and I had a surprise encounter with two chic Parisian women who spotted us from their apartment across the way. At first, I thought they were upset by our shoot—only to later find out they lovedwhat we were doing! They even offered us their own apartment for a new angle (which resulted in one of my favorite behind the scenes shots of all time). 😍

A Lesson in French Confidence 🇫🇷

In the U.S., boudoir is often seen as something just for a partner—but in France, it’s truly an art form, a celebration of self. A moment to honor your own beauty, at any age, just because you deserve to. And that’s something I want all of us to embrace. ❤️

I can’t wait to share more from this trip—including behind-the-scenes, my top Paris hotel picks for boudoir shoots, and of course, how you can create this magic in your own work. Stay tuned!

À bientôt, Stephanie

P.S. If you want a sneak peek of the images, keep an eye on my ​Instagram​—I’ll be sharing soon! 😉 #ParisBoudoir #SugarCookiesLingerie #ConfidenceAtEveryAge

Fine Art Nude Workshop by Kara Marie at Brooklyn Boudoir in NYC

I’ve been lucky enough to call myself an award-winning boudoir photographer in Brooklyn for years. I’ve captured the essence of countless women, helping them feel confident, beautiful, and empowered. But even for someone as experienced as me, there’s always room to grow, to learn, and to be inspired. That’s why when the opportunity arose to host a fine art nude workshop with the legendary Kara Marie, I jumped at the chance.

A Dream Collaboration

Kara Marie is a name synonymous with boudoir photography. Her work is iconic, and her influence on the industry is undeniable. To have her in my studio, sharing her knowledge and expertise, felt surreal. I couldn’t wait to see what magic we could create together.

Her passion for photography, for art, and for empowering women is infectious. This was more than just a workshop; it was a transformative experience for all the photographers who attended this event.

Breaking Down the Barriers

One of the biggest challenges in fine art nude photography is overcoming the inherent vulnerability of the subject. It’s about creating a safe, supportive environment where women feel comfortable exploring their bodies in a new light. Kara is a master at this, and she shared invaluable techniques for building trust and rapport with models.

We spent hours discussing the importance of communication, listening to the model’s vision, and creating a collaborative process. It’s not just about capturing a beautiful image; it’s about capturing a woman’s soul. And that takes a deep connection.

Mastering the Art of Lighting

Lighting is everything in photography, and fine art nudes are no exception. Kara’s mastery of light and shadow is legendary, and she generously shared her secrets with us. From classic Hollywood glamour to ethereal, dreamlike portraits, we explored a wide range of lighting setups.

The Power of Posing

Posing is another crucial element of fine art nude photography. It’s about guiding the model into positions that flatter their body, while also conveying the desired mood or emotion. The attendees had a chance to experiment with different body language, facial expressions, and hand placements. It was amazing to see how small adjustments could make such a big difference in the final image.

Elevating the Craft

Beyond the technical aspects of photography, this workshop emphasized the importance of artistic vision. Kara encouraged the photographers to think beyond the surface and to create images with depth and meaning. It’s about telling a story, expressing an emotion, or making a statement.

We discussed the role of composition, color, and texture in creating visually compelling images. And we talked about the power of art to inspire, to provoke thought, and to challenge perceptions.

Empowering Women Through Photography

Throughout the workshop, it was clear that Kara’s passion extends far beyond photography. She is deeply committed to empowering women and helping them see their own beauty. It was inspiring to be part of a community of women who were supporting and uplifting each other.

I’ve always believed that boudoir photography is about celebrating the female form, and this workshop reinforced that belief. It’s about helping women feel confident, sexy, and empowered. And it’s about creating art that is both beautiful and meaningful.

The Impact of the Workshop

If you’re a boudoir photographer looking to elevate your craft, I highly recommend seeking out workshops and educational opportunities. It’s an investment in yourself and your business. And who knows, you might even get the chance to learn from the incredible Kara Marie.

Ready to experience the magic of boudoir photography for yourself? Book your session with Brooklyn Boudoir Photography today and let’s create something truly special.

Remember, you are beautiful, and you deserve to be celebrated. Let’s capture your radiance and create timeless images that you’ll cherish forever.

My Secret Brooklyn Guide: Favorite Spots in NYC

Hey gorgeous!

I'm Stephanie, and I'm an award-winning boudoir photographer here in Brooklyn, NY. I absolutely adore this borough – it's where my creativity thrives, and it's constantly buzzing with an energy that just fuels my work.

But Brooklyn is more than just a backdrop for my boudoir magic. It's a full-on experience, and I want you to feel completely pampered and in-the-know when you book a shoot with me at Brooklyn Boudoir Photography. That's why I'm putting together this guide to all my favorite spots in NYC, especially those hidden gems in Brooklyn that will make your photoshoot even more unforgettable.

Top Brooklyn Stays

First things first: where to stay! Brooklyn offers a fantastic range of hotels, each with its own unique vibe. Whether you're looking for industrial-chic with a rooftop view (Wythe Hotel) or a sleek, modern space in a vibrant neighborhood (Arlo Williamsburg), you're sure to find the perfect home base for your boudoir experience.

Here are a few of my recommendations, all within a comfortable 15-20 minute drive from Brooklyn Boudoir Photography:

• Wythe Hotel: This industrial-chic hotel is a Brooklyn staple, offering stunning skyline views from its rooftop bar. It's the perfect place to unwind after your shoot and soak up the city's energy. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• Arlo Williamsburg: If you love a modern aesthetic, Arlo Williamsburg won't disappoint. It's got all the cool amenities you could ask for, plus it puts you right in the heart of the Williamsburg action. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• The William Vale: Contemporary rooms with skyline views, Italian restaurant, rooftop bar. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• The Hoxton: Modern rooms, a lively lobby area, and three restaurants. $$$. 15-minute drive.

• Penny Williamsburg: Stylish, minimalistic design with cozy rooms and great service. $$. 20-minute drive.

• Hotel Indigo: Contemporary rooms, outdoor pool, and pet-friendly. $$. 20-minute drive.

Eats and Treats Around the Studio

Now, onto the good stuff: food! Brooklyn is a haven for foodies, and there are incredible options for every taste bud right around the corner from Brooklyn Boudoir Photography.

Need a pre-shoot caffeine fix? SEY Coffee, literally across the street, is a local favorite known for its high-quality brews. Feeling like a pastry and a cozy atmosphere? Swallow Cafe is your spot – be mindful they are cash-only (but don't worry, there's an ATM inside!).

But boudoir photography isn't just about pampering before your shoot – it's about celebrating afterwards too! Here are a couple of my go-to restaurants for a post-shoot celebratory meal:

• Roberta's: This Williamsburg institution is famous for its wood-fired pizzas and trendy vibes. It's the perfect place to grab a slice (or two) with your girlfriends and toast to your boudoir empowerment. 5-minute walk from the studio.

• Mominette: Craving something a little more intimate? Mominette offers a cozy French-inspired menu with lovely garden seating. It's pure Parisian charm right here in Brooklyn. 12-minute walk from the studio.

• Ichiran: Renowned Japanese ramen chain known for its unique solo dining experience. 5-minute walk from the studio.

• Otis: Cozy, modern eatery renowned for its inventive dishes - dinner only. 5-minute walk from the studio.

Explore and Unwind in Brooklyn

Your boudoir shoot is all about you, and Brooklyn offers the perfect environment to explore and embrace your inner goddess. Here are a few of my favorite things to do around the studio that will get you feeling confident and inspired:

• Bushwick Collective: Bushwick is an open-air art gallery, with stunning murals splashed across buildings throughout the neighborhood. Take a walk and soak up the creativity – it's the perfect pre-shoot warm-up!

• Better Than Jam: Right next door to the studio, Better Than Jam is a treasure trove of unique, handmade clothing and accessories from local artists. Treat yourself to a little retail therapy after your shoot – you deserve it!

• L Train Vintage: Massive selection of affordable vintage clothing and accessories.

• Friends NYC: Trendy boutique offering vintage items, quirky gifts, and accessories.

• Maria Hernandez Park: Need a moment of zen? Maria Hernandez Park is a lovely green space perfect for a post-shoot stroll or picnic.

Ready to Book Your Brooklyn Boudoir Experience?

This is just a taste of what Brooklyn has to offer, and I can't wait to help you discover your own favorite spots during your boudoir shoot with Brooklyn Boudoir Photography.

My studio is a warm and inviting space designed to make you feel comfortable and confident. I'll guide you every step of the way, from wardrobe selection to posing, to ensure you capture stunning and empowering images you'll love.

Ready to book your Brooklyn boudoir experience? Contact me today – let's chat about your dream shoot!

From Boudoir Babe to Mama Bear: Your Journey with Brooklyn Boudoir

Today, I wanna share a client story that seriously gets me. It's a story about self-love, major life changes, and the magic of motherhood photography. Grab a coffee (or a glass of wine, no judgment!), because this is gonna be real, raw, and seriously inspiring!

Owning Your Confidence Before Baby Bumps

This radiant woman walked into my Brooklyn studio a while back, ready to rock a new chapter. She craved a session that screamed confidence and, let's be honest, a little bit of "wowza”. Boudoir photography was the perfect fit!

We created a shoot with all the bells and whistles – think luxurious fabrics, soft lighting, and playful poses that helped her see herself in a whole new light. The final pics? Breathtaking. A visual proof of her inner and outer beauty.

From Boudoir to Bumpin'

Fast forward a year or so, and guess who walks back through the Brooklyn Boudoir door? That’s right, there she was, with a beautiful surprise – she was pregnant! This time, it was all about capturing the magic of motherhood.

We designed a maternity shoot that oozed warmth and pure joy. We used flowy gowns that draped perfectly over her baby bump, a constant reminder of the miracle growing inside. Soft, natural light filled the studio, creating a perfect environment for her blossoming form. The result? Images of pure love and the excitement of meeting her little one.

The Bond Between Mama & Me

And then, the grand finale! She returned once again, this time with the most precious addition to her life – her baby.

This motherhood photography session was all about capturing the pure, raw connection between a mama and her child. We used natural textures to create a cozy, intimate space. In some shots, she cradled her baby close, skin-to-skin, gazing at her with eyes full of love that only a mother can possess. In others, we captured those fleeting, unforgettable moments – tiny fingers wrapped around Mama's!

Celebrate Your Amazing Journey

Her story is a powerful reminder that boudoir photography isn't just about celebrating your body before motherhood. It's about celebrating YOU at every stage of your amazing journey.

Whether you're a single woman rocking your confidence, a soon-to-be mom glowing with maternity bliss, or a new mama cherishing the bond with your baby, there's a boudoir or motherhood photography session waiting to capture your unique story.

Your Story Deserves to be Told

Feeling inspired? I would be honored to capture your story at Brooklyn Boudoir Photography. I offer a range of boudoir and motherhood photography packages designed to fit your needs and budget, and more importantly, to celebrate the incredible woman you are.

Shoot me an email today, and let's chat about your vision! We can brainstorm ideas, explore different locations and themes, and create a session that reflects YOU, celebrates your journey, and leaves you with breathtaking images that you'll treasure forever.

Remember, you are beautiful at every stage, and Brooklyn Boudoir Photography is here to help you capture that magic. Let's create something unforgettable together!

Rooftop Boudoir: A Dreamy Shoot with a Past Client

Rooftop boudoir photography is my absolute jam. There’s something undeniably magical about capturing a woman’s beauty against the backdrop of a city skyline. It’s edgy, it’s sexy, and it’s a total dream to photograph. Recently, I had the absolute pleasure of revisiting this dream with a past client, and let me tell you, it was pure magic.

Reuniting with a Past Client

I love when past clients reach out to me for another shoot. It’s like reconnecting with an old friend. There’s a level of trust and comfort that’s already established, which makes the whole experience even more intimate and fun. This particular client had been following my work and had been dying to do a rooftop boudoir shoot. As soon as she reached out, I knew we had to make it happen.

I’ve always been drawn to the energy of rooftops. It’s a world above the hustle and bustle of the city, a place where you can truly escape and let your imagination run wild. The concrete jungle becomes your playground, and the possibilities for stunning photos are endless.

Planning the Perfect Rooftop Shoot

Planning a rooftop boudoir shoot takes a bit more effort than a typical studio session. Safety is paramount, so I always make sure the rooftop is secure and accessible. I also consider the time of day for optimal lighting. Golden Hour is my personal favorite for a soft, dreamy glow, but this session was proof that even under the sun we can get beautiful photos! For what we were trying to achieve, it was the perfect setting to capture my client's natural beauty and confidence.

Boudoir Goddess

As soon as my client stepped onto the rooftop, she transformed into a goddess. The city skyline as her backdrop, the wind playing with her hair, and the way the sunlight kissed her skin – it was pure magic. We experimented with different poses, angles, and outfits, and the results were absolutely stunning.

There’s something so empowering about seeing yourself captured in such a confident and sensual way. It’s a celebration of the female form, and it’s a gift that keeps on giving. I love seeing the transformation in my clients as they step into their power and embrace their beauty.

The Rooftop Boudoir Experience

If you’re considering a rooftop boudoir shoot, I encourage you to go for it! It’s an experience you won’t forget. It’s not just about the photos; it’s about the journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

I believe that every woman deserves to feel confident and beautiful, and boudoir photography is a powerful tool for boosting self-esteem. It’s a celebration of your body, your curves, and your unique beauty.

Are you ready to experience the magic of rooftop boudoir photography? Let’s create something unforgettable together. Contact me today to book your session!

PS. Below are all the photos from this beautiful session. Get inspired and enjoy!

Boudoir for Introverts: NYC's Quiet Escape to Confidence!

Boudoir photography isn't just for extroverts! In fact, introverts can have the most empowering boudoir experiences. Think about it. Forget the loud music and a room full of assistants. Boudoir is all about you, me (your New York City boudoir photographer!), and a relaxed, intimate space. Sound perfect? Let me tell you why boudoir can be your secret weapon for unleashing your inner goddess, in your own style.

Conquer the Comfort Zone

Introverts thrive in controlled environments. Boudoir offers exactly that. It's a private session, just the two of us, in a beautiful studio. No pressure to chat, just focus on feeling amazing in your own skin. Nervous about posing? Don't worry! I'll guide you every step of the way, with gentle prompts and clear instructions. You won't feel awkward, you'll feel confident and powerful.

It's All About You

Because every session is customized, a boudoir session is all about you. Before the shoot, most of our communication will be via email. Tell me your vision, your anxieties (we all have them!), your favorite things. This helps me create a tailored experience that reflects your unique personality. Want a boudoir session that doesn’t show much? Done! Prefer a light and airy, whimsical vibe? Let's do it! This is your boudoir session, and I'm here to make it unforgettable.

Celebrate YOU Privately

If you’re an introvert, ditch the stress of a big reveal party! Boudoir photos are for your eyes, your partner's eyes, or whomever you choose. Want to create a stunning boudoir album for a romantic anniversary? Go for it! Feeling shy about sharing? Keep your photos private and enjoy the confidence boost all by yourself. It's entirely up to you. The photos published on my website are only from clients who gave me permission to do so, and you don’t have to!

Introvert-Friendly Boudoir Poses

Let's talk poses! Forget contorting yourself into uncomfortable positions. We can work on poses that focus on natural, flattering images that showcase your strengths. We'll play with lighting and drape fabric to create stunning images that celebrate your unique body shape. No experience necessary, just trust the process and let me work my magic!

Boudoir for Introverts

Boudoir photography is an experience, not just photos. It's about self-discovery, embracing your sensuality, and feeling incredible in your own skin. After your boudoir session, you'll walk away feeling empowered, confident, and beautiful. It's a chance to rewrite the narrative in your head and see yourself in a whole new light.

Ready for an Awesome Experience?

So, are you ready to experience the transformative power of boudoir photography? At Brooklyn Boudoir Photography, I specialize in creating a safe, comfortable space for everyone to explore their sensuality and capture their inner beauty.

Here's the exciting part: Unlike traditional boudoir studios, I understand the need for privacy and control. That's why I offer consultations before your shoot, so you can ask all your questions and feel completely comfortable. We'll also discuss what you envision for your photos, from the mood and lighting to the outfits and poses.

On the day of your shoot, the studio will be entirely yours. No assistants, only the hair and makeup artist before the shoot, and then just you and me. We'll take things at your pace, with plenty of breaks to relax and recharge. And forget feeling pressured to strike a pose you're uncomfortable with. We'll work together to find flattering positions that make you feel confident and beautiful.

Ready to step outside your comfort zone in a safe, supportive environment? Head over to my contact page and drop me a line. We can discuss your vision, answer any questions you have, and get you on the path to a boudoir experience that will leave you feeling like the confident, gorgeous woman you truly are.

Boudoir at Every Size | Boudoir Photography in Brooklyn

Hey gorgeous! For too long, boudoir photos have been dominated by a narrow view of beauty. But guess what? That's over. Plus-size boudoir is here to celebrate your curves, your confidence, and your stunning self in all your glory. So, Brooklyn babes, I’m about to show you why a boudoir shoot is the ultimate act of self-love.

Ditch the Pressure, Embrace the Pampering

Let's face it, sometimes the world tells us we need to shrink ourselves to fit in. Boudoir flips that script entirely. Forget expensive clothes that pinch and shoes that make your feet scream. In a boudoir shoot, it's all about what makes YOU feel incredible. Think luxurious lingerie that caresses your curves, flowing fabrics that whisper sensuality, and playful touches that make your inner diva roar.

Celebrate Your Unique Beauty, Not Society's Standards

Here's the biggest secret of boudoir photography: it's not about achieving some impossible standard of beauty set by airbrushed magazines. It's about capturing the essence of who you are – the fierceness in your eyes, the sensuality in your smile, the playfulness in your spirit. A skilled boudoir photographer knows how to highlight your best features and create images that make you feel like a total rockstar. I'll guide you through every step of the shoot, from flattering poses that accentuate your curves to lighting that makes your skin glow. Forget the pressure to conform to unrealistic beauty standards – in a boudoir shoot, you get to celebrate what makes you, YOU.

Confidence Boost Like No Other

Let's be real, stepping outside our comfort zones can be scary. But trust me, there's something magical about seeing yourself through the lens of a boudoir photographer who specializes in plus-size beauty. It's a chance to see your curves in a whole new light, with a fresh appreciation for your incredible body. You'll see the confidence radiate from your eyes in the photos, a confidence that will soar like never before. Boudoir photos are a reminder of your strength, your beauty, and your power to own every single inch of yourself. They're a keepsake that whispers "you are worthy" every time you look at them.

Your Personal Red Carpet Experience

Think of your boudoir shoot as a day of pampering dedicated solely to you. We'll have a fabulous makeup artist on hand to create a look that makes you feel like a million bucks, whether it's a smoky eye for a touch of mystery or a bold red lip for pure glamour. Hairstyling is also included, so you can flaunt your locks in a way that makes you feel confident and beautiful. Plus, we'll provide a comfortable, private studio space where you can relax, let loose, and let your true self shine. This is your chance to feel sexy, empowered, and completely in control.

It's All About You, Queen!

So, gorgeous queen, are you ready to experience the transformative power of plus-size boudoir photography? At Brooklyn Boudoir Photography, I'm all about creating a safe, inclusive space where you can celebrate your curves and capture your inner goddess in stunning photos. Don't wait another minute to embrace the beautiful woman you are – book your consultation today and let's make some boudoir magic happen!

Head over to my boudoir portfolio page and shoot me an email to learn more about my plus-size boudoir packages and schedule your consultation. I can't wait to celebrate YOU!

Why Is Boudoir Photography Expensive?

Hey Ladies! You've seen the fire pics, the confidence stories, maybe even your bestie's boudoir album that is out of this world. But wait, what's the deal with the price? Boudoir can seem expensive, but trust me, it's an investment in YOU that's worth every cent.

Boudoir? It’s an Experience

Forget point-and-shoot. Boudoir is a whole experience designed to make you feel incredible. Picture a Brooklyn loft dripping with glam, a hairstylist and makeup artist working their magic, and me, your boudoir photographer, guiding you like a pro. It's a pampering day all about YOU, ending with fierce photos that scream confidence. It's a self-love experience you won't forget!

Expertise You Can Trust

Sure, anyone can hold a camera. But a boudoir photographer is a lighting ninja, a master of flattering angles, and an expert at making you feel comfortable in your own skin. We've spent years honing our skills, attending workshops, and constantly leveling up. You deserve a photographer who gets boudoir and captures your essence in a way that makes you feel like a boss babe.

The Hidden Costs

Boudoir might look effortless, but there's a lot happening behind the scenes that elevates your entire experience. My Brooklyn studio is my pride and joy – meticulously maintained, stocked with gorgeous props and backdrops picked specifically to make your photos pop and create endless looks. Then there's the top-notch editing software that transforms your pics into masterpieces. These are investments that ensure a luxurious experience and flawless results that are way more than just phone pics.

But Wait, There's More!

The costs don't stop there, but hear me out. Boudoir photographers invest heavily in marketing and education to stay ahead of the curve and bring you the latest trends. We scour boudoir magazines, attend industry conferences, and constantly learn new techniques to ensure your photos are fresh and fabulous. Plus, there's insurance, equipment upkeep – cameras, lenses, lighting – and a whole team who work tirelessly behind the scenes to make your boudoir journey smooth. When you factor in everything that goes into creating those stunning photos and an unforgettable experience, the price starts to make perfect sense.

Your Time is Precious

Let's not forget the value of your time. Boudoir sessions are meticulously planned to ensure a smooth and efficient experience. From the initial consultation where we discuss your vision to the final reveal where you see your beautiful photos, we handle all the logistics. This means you can relax and focus on feeling fabulous, knowing every detail is taken care of. Plus, you get the benefit of our expertise in posing, lighting, and wardrobe selection, saving you hours of research and frustration.

Ready to Experience Brooklyn Boudoir?

Boudoir is an investment in yourself, your confidence, and a chance to capture your beauty in a timeless way. At Brooklyn Boudoir Photography, I’m passionate about creating a safe space where you can unleash your inner goddess and walk away feeling phenomenal. Ready to experience the magic? Contact me today and let's chat about creating a boudoir session that's uniquely you!

Boudoir for Moms-to-Be: Own Your Bump, Mama!

Hey mamas! Stephanie from Brooklyn Boudoir Photography here, and guess what? You're freaking awesome. Creating life? Check. Glowing like a goddess? Double check. But listen, between the excitement and the pizza cravings, self-doubt can be a jerk. It whispers insecurities about your changing body, making you question how you look. But mama, here's the truth: you are strong, you are beautiful, and you are worthy of celebrating every stage of pregnancy.

Boudoir for Moms-to-Be? It's Like a Party for You!

Boudoir isn't just fancy lingerie (though hey, go for it!). It's a celebration of YOU. It's capturing the fierce mama you're becoming, your body doing this incredible thing. Forget the airbrushed models and societal expectations of what pregnancy "should" look like. This is about YOUR amazing, pregnant self. Embrace the round belly and the fuller figure – it's all part of the beautiful transformation you're going through.

Stretch Marks? More Like Beauty Marks!

Pregnancy changes your body. Hello, stretch marks! They're a badge of honor, a reminder of the miracle you're creating. Boudoir lets you see those changes with hearty eyes. It's about loving your body for what it's doing, a total power move. Society might try to tell you those marks are flaws, but here's the secret: they're part of your unique story. Boudoir photography helps you see them as a symbol of your strength and resilience.

Confidence Boost Before Baby Boom? Sign Me Up!

Motherhood is wild. It's love, laughter, and maybe forgetting where you put your phone (again). But feeling confident in your own skin? That's a superpower for all the mom stuff. Boudoir is a way to rock that confidence before your little one arrives. Owning what you see in the camera? That feeling stays with you, making you a mama who embraces motherhood with self-love and fierceness.

This is a Self-Care Spa Day!

At Brooklyn Boudoir Photography, we know stepping in front of the camera can be scary. But listen, our studio is your chill zone. We create a comfy space where you can relax, get pampered with hair and makeup by our talented artists, and maybe even have a laugh or two with our friendly team! Think fluffy robes, bubbly drinks (non-alcoholic of course!), and music that sets the mood – it's a self-care spa day designed to make you feel beautiful and empowered.

This isn't your average photo shoot, mama. This is an experience! We want you to feel pampered and relaxed from the moment you walk through the door. Our stylists will help you choose wardrobe options that flatter your beautiful curves, and our hair and makeup artists will make you feel camera-ready and glamorous. Plus, with bubbly drinks and upbeat music, the whole session is designed to be fun and stress-free.

Memories for Mama

These boudoir photos aren't just pretty pictures, they're powerful reminders. Years from now, you'll look back and see the strong, confident, radiant mama you were when your incredible journey began. These motherhood photos become a visual story of the amazing transformation your body went through to bring life into the world.

Ready to Celebrate You with a Boudoir Session? Let's Do This!

You're a freaking rockstar, mama. Let Brooklyn Boudoir Photography capture this special time. We know these nine months fly by in a whirlwind of emotions and preparations. That's why we offer a comfortable, supportive environment to create boudoir photos that celebrate the amazing woman you are.

Here's the best part: a boudoir session is an investment in you. It's a chance to step outside the daily routine and reconnect with your inner strength and beauty. It's about creating timeless keepsakes that document this incredible chapter in your life.

So ditch the hesitation, mama! Hit us up for a free consultation, and let's chat about creating boudoir photos that are as unique and beautiful as you are. We can't wait to meet you and celebrate YOU!

How Boudoir Photography Helps After Divorce

Divorce can be a seismic shift in life, leaving one grappling with identity and self-worth. As a professional boudoir photographer in Brooklyn, NY, I know how boudoir photography helps women rebuild their lives post-divorce. In this article, we'll explore how embracing boudoir can become a catalyst for rediscovering confidence and embracing a new chapter.

Empowerment Through Boudoir

In the aftermath of divorce, it's not uncommon for women to feel a sense of loss, both emotionally and in terms of self-esteem. As a boudoir photographer, I've had the privilege of guiding numerous women through the process of reclaiming their power. Boudoir photography provides a safe space for them to express themselves, celebrate their bodies, and rediscover the strength within. The intimate nature of these sessions allows for a profound connection with one's own beauty and sensuality, fostering a newfound confidence that extends beyond the photo shoot.

Rebuilding Self-Esteem

Beyond the photos, boudoir photography serves as a therapeutic tool for rebuilding self-esteem. Through the lens, women confront and overcome insecurities, embracing vulnerability as a source of strength. The act of being photographed in a sensual and empowering way becomes a form of self-love, challenging societal norms and redefining beauty on their terms. It's a journey of self-discovery that extends far beyond the photo session, influencing how women perceive themselves in their daily lives.

Empowering Women to Embrace Change

Divorce often marks the beginning of a new chapter, and boudoir photography becomes a celebration of this life's change of direction. The images captured serve as powerful reminders of resilience and strength, acting as a personal declaration of independence. The process of selecting wardrobe, poses, and settings becomes an empowering experience, putting women in control of their lives and reinforcing their ability to embrace change.

A Healing Process

The boudoir experience goes beyond the individual; it fosters a connection with one's own body and, in many cases, sparks a renewed sense of intimacy with others. As a boudoir photographer in Brooklyn, I've witnessed clients emerge from sessions with a heightened appreciation for their bodies, leading to more fulfilling relationships. The newfound self-assurance gained through boudoir becomes a catalyst for healthier connections, both romantically and personally.

Redefining Beauty on Your Terms

Societal standards often dictate what is considered beautiful, leaving many women feeling inadequate post-divorce. Boudoir photography challenges these norms by showcasing the diverse beauty that exists in every individual. It's a rebellion against the notion that sensuality has an age limit, empowering women to embrace their unique allure. Through my lens, I encourage clients to redefine beauty on their terms, fostering a sense of liberation and self-acceptance.

A Lasting Legacy

Boudoir photography immortalizes a moment in time, serving as a lasting legacy of strength and resilience. The images become a personal time capsule, documenting the journey from vulnerability to empowerment. As a professional boudoir photographer in Brooklyn, I've seen clients revisit their photos as a source of inspiration, a tangible reminder of their ability to overcome challenges and emerge stronger.

Embrace Your Strength, Redefine Your Story

In conclusion, boudoir photography is not just about capturing beautiful images; it's a transformative experience that empowers women to embrace their strength and redefine their stories after divorce. As the founding photographer of Brooklyn Boudoir Photography, I invite you to embark on this empowering journey with me. Rediscover your confidence, celebrate your uniqueness, and embrace the beauty that exists within you. Contact me today to schedule your own transformative boudoir session and step into a new chapter of self-love and empowerment.

Is Boudoir Photography Right for Me? Answering Your Top Questions

Welcome, ladies! Are you curious about boudoir photography but not sure where to start? Get ready to have all your burning questions answered and discover why boudoir photography is about so much more than just pretty pictures.

What is Boudoir Photography?

Picture this: elegant poses, dreamy settings, and a whole lot of confidence. That's boudoir photography in a nutshell! But what exactly does it entail? Boudoir photography is all about capturing intimate and tasteful portraits that celebrate your unique beauty and femininity. It's like stepping into a world where every woman is a goddess, and every photo tells a story of empowerment and self-love. Sounds intriguing, right? Well, get ready to be captivated because boudoir photography is about to become your new obsession.

Is Boudoir Photography Right for Me?

Now, you might be wondering, "Is boudoir photography really my thing?" Spoiler alert: the answer is yes! Whether you're a size zero or a curvy queen, boudoir photography is for every woman, with no exceptions. It's about embracing your individuality and owning your sensuality in a safe and supportive environment. So, if you've ever dreamed of feeling like a glamorous goddess or just want to boost your confidence, then trust me, boudoir photography is definitely right up your alley. Get ready to unleash your inner diva and discover a side of yourself you never knew existed!

What Happens During a Boudoir Shoot?

Ever wonder what goes down during a boudoir photoshoot? Well, it's all about pampering and feeling like a queen! From getting your hair and makeup done to picking out outfits, it's a day filled with glam and fun. And don't worry about posing – I'll be there to guide you every step of the way. Together, we'll create stunning photos that capture your personality and make you feel like a total rockstar.

Do I Have to Wear Lingerie?

Here's a common question: Do you have to wear lingerie for a boudoir shoot? Nope! While lingerie is a popular choice, you can wear whatever makes you feel confident and beautiful. Whether it's a cozy sweater, your favorite dress, or even nothing at all, the choice is yours. Boudoir photography is all about embracing your individuality and feeling comfortable in your own skin.

Will My Photos Be Private?

Privacy is super important when it comes to boudoir photography. Your photos are yours and yours alone unless you give permission to share them. I totally respect your privacy and will never share your photos without your consent. So, feel free to let loose and have fun during your shoot – your photos are safe with me!

How Do I Get Ready for a Boudoir Shoot?

Getting ready for your boudoir shoot is an essential part of the experience, and it's easier than you might think! Start by selecting outfits that make you feel confident and beautiful. Whether it's a lacy lingerie set, a cozy sweater, or even your favorite pair of jeans, choose pieces that reflect your personality and make you feel amazing. Don't be afraid to mix and match different styles to create a look that's uniquely you.

Next, treat yourself to a relaxing bath, indulge in a skincare routine, or get a fresh haircut – whatever helps you feel your best. Remember to get plenty of rest the night before your shoot so you wake up feeling refreshed and energized. Confidence is key during a boudoir shoot, so come with an open mind and a positive attitude. Embrace your inner goddess and get ready to shine!

Ready to Book Your Boudoir Session?

Now that you're all set to dazzle in front of the camera, it's time to book your boudoir session with Brooklyn Boudoir Photography! Getting started is as easy as reaching out to me via phone or email. We'll have a chat about your vision for the shoot, discuss any questions or concerns you may have, and choose a date that works best for you. From there, I'll handle all the details, leaving you free to relax and enjoy the experience. Get ready to feel like a superstar as we embark on this exciting boudoir adventure together!

Are You Ready to Shine?

Now that you know all about boudoir photography, it's time to ask yourself: Are you ready to shine? If the answer is yes, then let's make it happen! Contact Brooklyn Boudoir Photography today, and let's create some magic together. Get ready to feel confident, beautiful, and totally unstoppable – your boudoir journey starts now!

Why Boudoir Wall Art is a Must-Have!

Hey there, gorgeous! Let's talk about turning your beautiful boudoir photos into wall art. Trust me, it's not just decor; it's a game-changer. Imagine your photos adorning your walls with images that scream empowerment. It's about owning your sensuality, your strength, your beauty. Boudoir wall art is more than just a luxury; it's a statement, a celebration of your journey to self-love.

Confidence Boost

First off, let's address the elephant in the room: confidence. I get it; it's not easy to bare it all, even if it's just in front of the camera. But here's the thing – seeing yourself in a wall art is a powerful confidence booster. Every glance at those images reminds you of your allure, your uniqueness. It's a daily affirmation, a reminder that you're undeniably breathtaking, inside and out. In a world that often tries to dim our shine, that wall art in your wall is your spotlight, your beacon of self-assurance.

Transform Your Space

Now, let's get into the transformational aspect of boudoir wall art. When you walk into your bedroom, tired after a long day, there it is – a gallery of you, radiating confidence, grace, and allure. Instantly, you're transported to moments of joy, of feeling utterly beautiful in your skin. Boudoir wall art is about the emotional resonance it creates. It's about embracing your journey, your story, and immortalizing it in breathtaking imagery.

Why You Should Do It

"But why boudoir wall art?" you might ask. Well, let me break it down for you. Boudoir photography is all about capturing your beauty, your authentic self. It's about embracing your curves, your scars, your quirks, and turning them into art. And what better way to honor that than by showcasing it on your walls? It's a daily reminder of your strength. Plus, let's not forget the undeniable aesthetic appeal; a boudoir wall art adds a touch of elegance, sensuality, and sophistication to any space.

Strengthening Relationships

Now, let's talk about the impact of boudoir wall art on your relationship with yourself and others. When you decorate your walls with images that celebrate your sensuality and confidence, you're making a commitment to yourself. You're saying, "I am worthy of love, of admiration, of celebration." And guess what? That kind of self-assurance is very important. It radiates from within, drawing others to you like moths to a flame. So, whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, boudoir wall art is a powerful tool for cultivating self-love and enhancing your connections with others.

Final Words

In conclusion, if you're looking to elevate your space, boost your confidence, and celebrate your journey to self-love, boudoir wall art is a must-have. It's more than just decor; it's a statement, a celebration of your strength, your beauty, your essence. So, what are you waiting for, darling? Embrace the transformative power of boudoir photography and unleash your inner goddess. And if you're in Brooklyn, NY, looking for a boudoir photographer who understands the art of empowerment, look no further than Brooklyn Boudoir Photography. Book your session today and let's create beautiful photos together!